[Kayci]

While I disagree that waiting for love until after 20's should be the case...
I do know you're not as ready as you seem, BECAUSE you're thirteen.

Heck, my ex and I had a three age year difference...I was 14, he was 17.
It was online and phone. Yeah, there was talk of marriage, etc, blah blah blah. But he didn't try for it, really, and I was too niave to understand. It became bad when he revealed his pedophilia tendencies, but soon as he got I would do my best to be loyal despite that vice, he went all out class A jackass on me. (Told the story on another thread in this part of the forum)

We were together for almost two years...I broke off with a "break" the day of our anniversary, and few days later, I broke up with him, 'cause I fell in love with someone who...well, valued me. That relationship is now long distance, but we send gifts- stopped sending notes 'cause him and his brothers poke fun at my handwriting~! DX- and we're in different countries now...we talk on phone, use webcam and mic, etc.

Me; America
Him; Japan.

Our parents on both sides, and though my dad is trying to be realistic and says it may not last, he's hoping it will. He has no problem calling him to random strangers- "Marriage material-after college, of course"

but anyways...
If he threatens suicide...that's not good.
does he have periods of black moods toward you?
I'd say to show real maturity? Step back and analyze.

You hope he could be everything you want, that you out of millions found him so young, but be careful.