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Originally Posted by biginjapan
no offense dude but the problem sounds like its your low self esteem. If you aren't comfortable in social situations then you aren't going to make friends anywhere in the world. In order to make friends you do need to actually talk to them. If you stand still in a room of people then that won't help your situation. You need to get over being shy and approach people.
You won't join a club? Come on dude, don't ask for help if you aren't willing to change.
Thats like me asking how do I gain muscle? And then I say "well I don't want to lift weights because its tiring."
Sorry if I come off like I dick but I guess thats one of my problems is that I've always been blunt.
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I Agree. You are the only one who can change your situation. Join a club. Take Japanese lessons. Learn bellydance like I did (OK, I'm not good but I met a lot of friends, especially ladyfriends
). You need to take responsibility for yourself. Get off your butt and LIVE!