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I know a number of guys who are divorced and now live in Japan doing low-end teaching jobs because it is the only way they will be able to see their kids at all. In some cases their ex-wives refuse to let them see the kids even though they are here, and in one case a guy has yet to meet his daughter as his wife and parents forced him to move out before the baby was born.

Unfortunately there seems to be quite a lot of that kind of thing.