[TalnSG]

In a previous post I laid out all my the reasons not to avenge a break-up, but I just remembered the one time I really went all out - when I decided to divorce the 1st husband after he had gutted my finances, got me fired from my job, wrecked my car and then slept with a bar waitress while I was at a funeral. What a 6 months that was!

I packed what was left of my stuff in a friend's pickup truck and left while he was at work. Once the divorce decree was final, I reported his tax evasion to the IRS. And I gave all of his contact info to his first wife who was looking for him for not paying his child support. Not sure which got him first, but I'm sure it put a dent in his drinking money.

Maybe there was some karmic debt incurred there, but there had to be an offset from helping others get what was legally and morally theirs.