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Originally Posted by evanny
i dont get it...why people allways say - so... you date her/him because of the looks or how funny, interesting she/he is?
why dont just date someone who has both? a good looking girl/guy whos also a great person. seems to me like everyone who makes these topics thinks it is impossible to combine...and those people who chose looks are somewhat inferior to those who date person because of their "heart".
thats the part i think is total bullsh**.
i find that actually the beautiful grils i meet and know are also the ones who have the best personality and not the other way around.
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That's basically what I've been saying. It's kind of like reverse discrimination. Everyone here is writing off attractive people like they are 100 percent pompous assholes. I don't know how everyone's self esteem issues are here, and I'm not judging, but it sounds like a lot of people here can't score "10"s so they immediately write them off but use the excuse that they're not on the same level of depth or intellect, which is just as stereotypical.
I personally get along with more attractive women as well, both romantically and platonically. I find them to be more outgoing, radiant, and I don't have to deal with their insecurities as much, and best of all, neither do they.