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Originally Posted by Ryzorian
I would say it's a "Big City" thing. New York gets the same rap. It's what I call "Gerbil Syndrome". Gerbils become very aggressive and combative if too many live in a small area. It's essentially a fight for resources.
Country folk are friendlier...this is true in the US as well and probably most countries.
Though I also think Japan uses the "polite" thing as a fine art to debase and or insult others and get away with it. Like when you say something mean online and add a  at the end or the tag line "No offense". |
LOL @ "gerbil syndrome" and the passive-aggressive
at the end of a offensive statement.
I have to agree with the Japanese using the "polite" thing as a fine art in some cases. They really do work in subtleties and it can be good AND bad. The same way Americans are more blunt. An American saying "umm,yeah you're not doing it right let me show you how to do it rookie" is kinda blunt and straight forward and depending on the body language and tone can be either helpful, instructing, and funny! or can be said in a rude manner such as "you're a complete and utter idiot."
I'm sure this is over-simplifying it but I'm hoping you understand my point. (subtly saying: if you don't; you're an idiot! OR I really hope you understand my point because I'm not sure I made it clear.)
It really depends on the individual based in that particular culture to show off the strengths/weaknesses that the culture can offer.