What wud u do?

[chibiloli93]

ok so my friends wur really getting me angry 2day...well more like annoyed...they kept on talking about guys, stupid things, and perverted things... then when i wuz tryin 2 say somethin they kept ignoring me like i wuz invisible! worst of all is that they wud not shut up! I think they just talk 2 me b/c im a good student & a pushover! What wud u do in my situation?

[Gorotsuki]

I wouldn't talk to them. I had friends like that I don't talk to them anymore and we are no longer friends. It makes me quite happy.

[chibiloli93]

Originally Posted by Gorotsuki

I wouldn't talk to them. I had friends like that I don't talk to them anymore and we are no longer friends. It makes me quite happy.

2 of them i just met this yr... the other one i knew 4rm last year, & she wuznt like this, she didnt do perverted things, stupid stuff or act like she does now...i even think,"oh my gosh! its no wonder guys dont like listening 2 girls! u guys r that reason!"my friend (the one 4rm last yr) confides in me & tells me secrets & stuff but she acts like a little b**** when shes w/ other ppl besides me...i only talk 2 her b/c i know ppl say way 2 much stuff behind her back & i want her 2 actually have a friend who actually gives a damn!

[Daydreamer]

Originally Posted by chibiloli93

2 of them i just met this yr... the other one i knew 4rm last year, & she wuznt like this, she didnt do perverted things, stupid stuff or act like she does now...i even think,"oh my gosh! its no wonder guys dont like listening 2 girls! u guys r that reason!"my friend (the one 4rm last yr) confides in me & tells me secrets & stuff but she acts like a little b**** when shes w/ other ppl besides me...i only talk 2 her b/c i know ppl say way 2 much stuff behind her back & i want her 2 actually have a friend who actually gives a damn!

that is very nice of u, but u need to tell her to stop acting like a b***h

[EveV]

I would talk to them each separate about how you feel. It could be nothing , their doing it without realizing.

[Cyasarin]

Originally Posted by EveV

I would talk to them each separate about how you feel. It could be nothing , their doing it without realizing.

I might do that, too. But I would start talking with the friend the you knew longer and work your way up.
However, my 1st thought would be to ignore them and maybe even go find somebody else to hang out with for a while. You don't have to leave them, but it would be less boring.
But yeah, even after ignoring them for a while, I'd probably forget about and start talking to them again. I mean, they're just talking about some stupid stuff, there's no need to get really upset about it. You could even try coming up with a more intelligent conversation that's interesting to all of yall if you wouldn't like to talk to them about it or ignore them.

[chibiloli93]

Originally Posted by Cyasarin

I might do that, too. But I would start talking with the friend the you knew longer and work your way up.
However, my 1st thought would be to ignore them and maybe even go find somebody else to hang out with for a while. You don't have to leave them, but it would be less boring.
But yeah, even after ignoring them for a while, I'd probably forget about and start talking to them again. I mean, they're just talking about some stupid stuff, there's no need to get really upset about it. You could even try coming up with a more intelligent conversation that's interesting to all of yall if you wouldn't like to talk to them about it or ignore them.

main problem...i talk & its like im talkin 2 myself...

[xtine]

if they don't want to talk to you don't talk to them ... i think it is the best way to let them know that something is wrong and if they won't still realize what is going on then find another friend someone much better and someone who would not make you feel op...(did i make sense?* hehe*)

[QuoyaNatsume]

Well I think you should start with talking to the friend you knew longer 'cause once you get through to her she might start telling the other girls to calm down some.
If that doesn't work then ignore them & see what happens, but I don't think that would do much because if their already acting like you don't exist when you're talking to them they just might 4get about you altogether!!?? Or you can do what I do when I hang out with my guy friends & act like they're deaf launch the nearest heavy object at them lol

[NightChilde25]

I've had this almost exact same thing happen to me. I just picked up the biggest book I could find (just your hands works, too) raised it up and brought it down on the table, hard. They all jumped like they'd been shot. While they were all in a state of shock I pretty much screamed "Hello! Am I invisable or something!?!" at them. Then I told them in a much calmer tone how I felt and what they were doing. Turns out they were just so into their conversation they just kind of tuned me out. They didn't mean to. They said they were sorry and listened to me. It might work for you, too.

On the other hand, with what you've said about the friend that you've had the longest, you may need to have a sit down with her. You don't need someone who is only friends with you when no one can see and acts like a total jerk when she's with everyone else. I'd give her a chance and talk to her about her behavior but drop her if she doesn't change her ways. It's nice of you to want to be her friend, but you have to do what's right for you.