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04-09-2008, 08:37 PM

1st of all, thanks for your advice!^^

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I wouldn't recommend this... Because bullying can be different for everyone. However, I would have responded by telling them to "Grow up" (said loudly, for everyone to hear) or simply... Ignored them whilst not showing much sign of caring... Which, I probably really wouldn't have cared eitherway.
Actually, I'm completely ignoring them...



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04-09-2008, 08:43 PM

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Just ignore them =x..
I also got bullied X_X..
But i completely ignored the people who bullied me.
After a while they stop cause they think then ''oh he/she doesn't care about it anymore..''
Thats how it happend with me x).
Just ignore them and just don't look at them, thou if it get worse then go see the headmaster =x.



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04-09-2008, 08:46 PM

I'm ready to visit the headmaster... My mother will try to call him...
I ignore them all the time! It's like I'm doing the opposite...



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04-10-2008, 04:54 PM

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Thank you guys! I'll try everything!

Some people told me to ignore them. This is what I'm doing... They keep bullying...

Excessum: I wish they were boys... I know this may be the 1st time you hear that but THEY'RE GIRLS!!! And stubborn like mules...

Some people asked me if this happens durying class too. Yeah, they don't stop! Today, for exemple, we had Ancient Greek (I'm from Greece). The teacher asked me to conjugate a verb. I made a minor mistake and I heard one of them saying: "Wrooooong!!! You're irrelevant to the subject!!! HAHA!!!" I didn't pay atternion... But it's the... 47th time they do this to me I think... I've lost count!
XDDDDD what grade are you in, it sounds like middle school taunting Hahahaha well just act more grown up then them. If they want to be stupid then let them, nothing can change that but just tell them to grow up and grow a brain.



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o-o;;; Tough question.... I would beat the hell outa em personaly.... But if I was to give mature advice I would say something like such: Tell them to back off. Tell them you dont like it and dont appreciate it. Ask them how they would like to be the victim. And if they didnt quit get an adult to help. If the adult doesnt help get a diffrent adult such as the head of the school or the kids parents.

>>; Thats my advice...
totally agree - get ur self an alibi and a ski mask - then go to their houses one by one, knock on the door - once they appear beat the living crap out of them !! then run - quick lol !!

of course that is what i would do personally lol - i would not advise you to do the same !!


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04-10-2008, 08:02 PM

Hiyakushi: We're in the 8th grade. But those 4 act like they're still in the 1st one...

pumpum: HAHA!!!! That's funny! One prob... they live in the other side of the city... Thank God for me, actually...



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04-11-2008, 11:12 PM

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04-11-2008, 11:28 PM

Ohhh
It's not that bad I have people that call me worse things daily.
Words are just words.
You have three options.
1.Cuss them out
2.Punch them in the face
3.Tell an adult to have them removed before it results to 1 or 2

When you graduate you're going to look back at what they were saying and be like " Lol o.O why did that bother me?"

You know who you are, they don't.
Let them suffer and continue to pointlessly hate, for that lack of knowledge.



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04-11-2008, 11:32 PM

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Revenge never works, only makes this worse.

Talk in private with a teacher, and arrange a way she can catch them in the act, so you aren't seen as a rat.

The value they get out of bullying you now is personal entertainment. Once the negative of bullying you (getting in trouble) exceeds the value (entertainment) they will stop.

You are not in the wrong, so use the power of authority to your advantage.
Its not revenge, its changing your own perspective. When you have confidence in yourself, you're less likely to be bullied or less likely to be effected adversely by it.


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04-12-2008, 12:36 AM

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Its not revenge, its changing your own perspective. When you have confidence in yourself, you're less likely to be bullied or less likely to be effected adversely by it.
I agree with the second part. Bullies don't pick on people with self-confidence. But taking revenge on a bully only makes you the same as them. Mean and petty.
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