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Question If you had annoying classmates... - 04-08-2008, 08:59 PM

Now, that's not a game or a simple question...

I have some VERY annoying classmates. Annoying... no... I didn't use the correct word... Stupid! No... Idiots! (I think I'm close enough...) 4 of them are bullying me non-stop!!! I don't know why but I'm so fed up! From the moment I joined that school, these 4 made my school life a pure HELL! Now it's more than hell! Things have become worse...

Anyway, I don't pay attention. Normally, they would stop. They don't! They conntinue making fun of me and ridicule me. According to them, I'm rubbish!

So, WHAT CAN I DO????? Please, I need some advice...



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04-08-2008, 09:08 PM

Tell someone, ignore them, or tell them to "Shut the fuck up and leave you alone". If that doesn't work there's always violence... *shifty eyes* I'm just kidding about the violence one, violence never leads to anything good.
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04-08-2008, 09:16 PM

Yeah, usually if someone is bothering me I usually ignore them or come up with a witty comeback
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04-08-2008, 09:17 PM

ahh now you are describing exactly the ones in my class ://
I totally.... I would love to say the word "hate" but they are even not worth for it.. Okay I tell you, ignore them! Really! The only way of getting rid of them is ignoring them! Act like they are actually not there! Dont even response them! Because when you responde them back and show that you are pissed off, they understand that they succeed in ther mission! So dont even listen to them.. If they insult you, just turn blind eye and walk away! Never even listen to them..


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04-08-2008, 09:59 PM

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Now, that's not a game or a simple question...

I have some VERY annoying classmates. Annoying... no... I didn't use the correct word... Stupid! No... Idiots! (I think I'm close enough...) 4 of them are bullying me non-stop!!! I don't know why but I'm so fed up! From the moment I joined that school, these 4 made my school life a pure HELL! Now it's more than hell! Things have become worse...

Anyway, I don't pay attention. Normally, they would stop. They don't! They conntinue making fun of me and ridicule me. According to them, I'm rubbish!

So, WHAT CAN I DO????? Please, I need some advice...
I would personally hang out with some friends or join a society or something and then make fun of those "bullies" and switch roles.


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04-08-2008, 10:09 PM

Revenge never works, only makes this worse.

Talk in private with a teacher, and arrange a way she can catch them in the act, so you aren't seen as a rat.

The value they get out of bullying you now is personal entertainment. Once the negative of bullying you (getting in trouble) exceeds the value (entertainment) they will stop.

You are not in the wrong, so use the power of authority to your advantage.
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04-08-2008, 10:12 PM

Only thing, you can do, is be so super at something, that if they will say something about you, they will look ridiculous.

By that, I mean be great, outstanding in in Math or I dont know. Or in something. Or if you are not much a learning person, have a hobby!

Just think of it, how much they would be amazed if you could speak japanese!!!
They would be like . You should do soemthing that rises respect in others' soul.


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04-08-2008, 10:32 PM

Personally I wouldn't strriveee to make yourself 'awesome' or whatever. The reason you should get a hobby or become good at something is to take your mind off things. It's hard to at first, but bullies like to irritate people and force a reaction. Once you stop reacting and giving them what they want, they'll move onto the next poor unsuspecting victim >.<



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04-08-2008, 10:42 PM

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Now, that's not a game or a simple question...

I have some VERY annoying classmates. Annoying... no... I didn't use the correct word... Stupid! No... Idiots! (I think I'm close enough...) 4 of them are bullying me non-stop!!! I don't know why but I'm so fed up! From the moment I joined that school, these 4 made my school life a pure HELL! Now it's more than hell! Things have become worse...

Anyway, I don't pay attention. Normally, they would stop. They don't! They conntinue making fun of me and ridicule me. According to them, I'm rubbish!

So, WHAT CAN I DO????? Please, I need some advice...
o-o;;; Tough question.... I would beat the hell outa em personaly.... But if I was to give mature advice I would say something like such: Tell them to back off. Tell them you dont like it and dont appreciate it. Ask them how they would like to be the victim. And if they didnt quit get an adult to help. If the adult doesnt help get a diffrent adult such as the head of the school or the kids parents.

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04-08-2008, 10:43 PM

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Personally I wouldn't strriveee to make yourself 'awesome' or whatever. The reason you should get a hobby or become good at something is to take your mind off things. It's hard to at first, but bullies like to irritate people and force a reaction. Once you stop reacting and giving them what they want, they'll move onto the next poor unsuspecting victim >.<
Nah they must be mucked up to stop that. If they feel dumb, they will stop it and never do it again with anyone.


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