What's the most hurtful thing someone's ever done to you?

[odonata]

I was kinda shot 3 times and then my friends dog tried to protect me and she got shot aswell. I made it but the dog passed away. I felt more pain over my friends dog then the crap i took. She was hit with 5 at close range where as I had some distance. .22 cal

[Suki]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

Well yeah, like some people have to go through really worse things than I've been through! It upset me at the time, I got bullied kind of a lot in school. But I don't tend to dwell on it, they all said I'm ugly and pathetic and stuff like that, so I'll just go out and prove them wrong when I'm super happy ^_^ Personally I think people just say those things either because they are jelous or they have no self-esteem, so I kind of feel more sympathetic towards them than myself.

Yeahhh that's the way to be! But, I gotta tell you, if I had been bullied at school it would have ruined my life entirely. School is where you spend most of your childhood and youth, so having people make fun of you is not something everyone can put up with.

Originally Posted by MissMisa

That must have been annoying! People copy my style at school all the time which is rather frustrating, I have a few little clones roaming around which pisses me off. But I'll be leaving school soon so thats great Off to university instead. Also, an entire art class copied one of my works, [I think the teacher must have held it up as an example] which pissed me off. But people say well imitation is the highest form of flattery, still annoys me though

It didn't flatter me at all. I mean, those were my words! All credit ought to have been given to me. You can't just steal someone else's idea and make it seem like it was your own, that's not right and people should get jailed for this xDDD! Now seriously, that got me burning with anger, so bad it was... I don't mind people copying something I do if that's gonna help them in some way, but this wasn't quite the case since that chick knew I would be pissed... I mean, come on, you don't need to have an IQ of over 90 to know that no one likes to have their stuff stolen from them without permission.

[forgotenmemory]

Originally Posted by Suki

Yeahhh that's the way to be! But, I gotta tell you, if I had been bullied at school it would have ruined my life entirely. School is where you spend most of your childhood and youth, so having people make fun of you is not something everyone can put up with.

Really? Ruin your life? Damn...being bullied really isn't much, to me at least, being bullied doesn't change my life.

Though I could go without the kids in my class calling me a nerd for getting 107 percent in Communication Arts.

[AmbeRz]

Depends how much you get bullied and how serious it is. Getting bullied can seriously damage the self-esteem of some people...amongst other things.

[MissMisa]

Originally Posted by forgotenmemory

Really? Ruin your life? Damn...being bullied really isn't much, to me at least, being bullied doesn't change my life.

Though I could go without the kids in my class calling me a nerd for getting 107 percent in Communication Arts.

It depends who you are and how serious it is. Personally, I'm a light hearted and optimistic person most of the time so I got through it. If I'm truthful though, at times I nearly left my school and my mum was going to send me to a private school. Things got pretty tough since it was just when I started new school and I was in the middle of exams. But I had a few awesome friends and a really good family life, so I could go home and leave it all behind. Some people aren't that lucky.

[forgotenmemory]

Yes, your right. There was this new girl in school, and when someone bullied her, she said she wanted to leave.

[Gackt21]

My parent made it a habit to hurt my feelings. They have always thought they could make me feel better by spending money on me. They even do that during my marriage to my husband thinking we need things from them that we don't ask for. My parents aways thought that if we get something for her we will get our way with her and control her. This is how they destroyed everyone of my relationships by not letting me alone for 2 seconds.

[Ryuuchan]

I was bullied a lot in school when I was 7-12. Nobody ever wanted to get to know me, they just kept me out of everything, called me with any names untrue, threw stones after me & laughed on my clothes & everything I said. But I had this one friend I trusted in the age of 9-12. Then she told me that after we chance the school to the 7th grade she cannot show anyone she knows me because Im uncool.
Now Ive got more friends than I ever had before, people who I could trust my life with. I also found out my way of life the hard way.. but i found it anyways.
The last thing I ever heard about her was that now shes the one called by nasty names behind her back. Funny thing is.. I feel sorry for her. She has moved another town now though.

[EveV]

Oh wow.
I dunno, really people have done alot of really messed up things to me
Honestly what these brats do to me in highschool is nothing.

I thinkkkk a recent incident that I don't mind bringing up publically was whennnn my big brother who lives in India, ditched me.

I've never had a chance to meet any of my family members that are blood related to me and I was really really excited and he ended up just not coming by.

I cleaned up the whole house and was sooo happy .. and he just.. didn't show up.
I was really disappointed.
I feel very separate from the rest of the world because you know I just don't have a real family. I love my " dad" but the fact is he isn't my real dad.
I wish I had the opportunity of getting to know this other world that I'm supposed to be in.
They just don't seem to interested in me..


Value your family because damn it hurts not having one.
Their a fucking treasure.

[ivi0nk3y]

Originally Posted by EveV

Oh wow.
I dunno, really people have done alot of really messed up things to me
Honestly what these brats do to me in highschool is nothing.

I thinkkkk a recent incident that I don't mind bringing up publically was whennnn my big brother who lives in India, ditched me.

I've never had a chance to meet any of my family members that are blood related to me and I was really really excited and he ended up just not coming by.

I cleaned up the whole house and was sooo happy .. and he just.. didn't show up.
I was really disappointed.
I feel very separate from the rest of the world because you know I just don't have a real family. I love my " dad" but the fact is he isn't my real dad.
I wish I had the opportunity of getting to know this other world that I'm supposed to be in.
They just don't seem to interested in me..


Value your family because damn it hurts not having one.
Their a fucking treasure.

Ugh, Indians are known to look down upon female children.. and that is to put it politely.
That is probably why >.<
Still, that's a very shitty thing to happen.
I know how you feel though. I have no family either