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05-14-2008, 04:16 PM

just about any child can be expose to bullying. Because you're a nerd.....because you're too black....because you're too white....because you're illegal....because you look different....because you don't wear the "updated" style....because your an orphan. Any child is exposed to bullying.

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Giving a young child to a gay couple could expose them to bullying and so on. It's not right, but you can't expect kids to understand it. Older children, teenagers should be given the choice whether to be adopted by a gay couple. Because kids simply can't understand properly what it means.

However there are a loads of kids in care, probably wishing they could just have somone that loved them, whether they are a gay couple or not.

That's down to the authorities whether they are allowed to adopt or not, and sometimes the preference of the child.

I encourage homosexuals to adopt children. A litlle bullying is small price to pay for a family that loves you. Anyone ever spend a day in an orphanage? Or at a state home? I don't care if I have 2 daddies just as long as they don't beat the innocence outta me. It's a bit late for that now, but I woulden't have minded about 10 years ago.




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05-14-2008, 04:26 PM

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I encourage homosexuals to adopt children. A litlle bullying is small price to pay for a family that loves you. Anyone ever spend a day in an orphanage? Or at a state home? I don't care if I have 2 daddies just as long as they don't beat the innocence outta me. It's a bit late for that now, but I woulden't have minded about 10 years ago.
I know, that is exactly why I mentioned that fact.



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05-14-2008, 04:32 PM

My significant other doesn't feel too strongly about adoption as I do....
But If I weren't with him....I'd probably have a house full of adopted sons and daughters. Once they've reached the "un-trainable" age, those kids have a harder time getting adopted and so they get tossed back and forth from foster home to foster home. There is a higher percentage rate to adopt babies. and toddlers than children older than 7. And foster homes don't do a very good job at taking care of the children. Most foster homes are in it for the money and the benefits that they receive. Saddly.



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Giving a young child to a gay couple could expose them to bullying and so on. It's not right, but you can't expect kids to understand it. Older children, teenagers should be given the choice whether to be adopted by a gay couple. Because kids simply can't understand properly what it means.

However there are a loads of kids in care, probably wishing they could just have somone that loved them, whether they are a gay couple or not.

That's down to the authorities whether they are allowed to adopt or not, and sometimes the preference of the child.
People might be bullied so gay couples shouldn't be allowed to adopt? By that logic overweight people, minorities, short people, bald people shouldn't be allowed to adopt children.

Instead of catering to the bullies more gay couples should be allowed to adopt so eventually they won't be seen as bully fodder.
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05-14-2008, 04:40 PM

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I think Suki just hit a critical issue, that negates the beastiality arguement that I have heard from far to many people for far too long, about homosexuality, bisexuality and BDSM. I think the focus should rest on two principles.
(1) the act (whatever it may be) is mutually agreed upon by two informed and consenting adults.
(2) The act harms no one, physically or mentally. Those to criteria having been met, its no one else's right to interfere or condemn.
Why does it negate the Beastiality issue? The similarity is that it is "sex". Therefore just because two "adults" consent to it, doesn't make it something wholly different.


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People might be bullied so gay couples shouldn't be allowed to adopt? By that logic overweight people, minorities, short people, bald people shouldn't be allowed to adopt children.

Instead of catering to the bullies more gay couples should be allowed to adopt so eventually they won't be seen as bully fodder.
I know that, I was just giving reasons that some people give against gay couples adopting. Actually, I've heard talk on the news that obese couples are going to be stopped from adopting :S But I think with the rise of child obesity in the UK this is because of a health impliment. I don't know though, I'll try and find the article I read.

Oh, here we are :

BBC NEWS | Magazine | Too heavy to adopt?



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Why does it negate the Beastiality issue? The similarity is that it is "sex". Therefore just because two "adults" consent to it, doesn't make it something wholly different.
Because beastiality is animal abuse. Sex between consenting adults isn't.
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Because beastiality is animal abuse. Sex between consenting adults isn't.
LOL, so you're saying sex with a larger animal is raping that animal?
I think such animals would easily trample anything that tried to harm them, or are you going to disagree?

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for some time now x]
i've been curious of this book titled
"GOD is not great: how religion poisons everything"
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and that's why i hate religions so much (especially those related to christianity) because the followers of those 'faiths' are usually ignorant and blind to other thoughts and ideas =.=
*not saying atheists are exempt from that, but the religious folk are especially annoying with their ignorance*
*not saying all religious people are such, but the VAST majority that i have personally encountered (when probed enough about their own faith) have proven unable to defend their own religion with a ...believable and 'NON'-desperate argument)*
So you hate religions because they poison everything.
What's your experience with Christians and people who follow religions related to Christianity.
Since I am one of them, i'd really like to know what experience you base your vast knowledge on

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So? Human legs are hairy by nature and (most) women and (some) men get them waxed while anatomy means for the hair to be there.

And mouths are not designed for kissing yet we do.

Oh and sodomy is practiced by hetero couples as well, so I don't see what's so not right about two men/women having sex when they do practically the same o.O
That makes little sense and has little relevance to sexuality whatsoever >.>
Besides, I don't agree with Sodomy in any relationship. That's just me though.


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05-14-2008, 04:57 PM

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I know, that is exactly why I mentioned that fact.
I was agreeing with you Misa.

I will admit, there are some kinds of people that should not be allowed to adopt children.

Sex offenders. Got a lolita complex? Probably shoulden't adopt that child.
People with a history of child abuse. Like hitting kids? Then you probably shoulden't adopt that child.

But denying a child a real home becouse their guardians are overweight? or homosexual? The only people who come up with that, have never been orphans. I guarantee you. They do worse things everyday. I had to sleep next to a girl that cried herself to sleep every night, becouse her adopted father. Raped her, on a regular basis! The same goverment that gives you statements like that, sends children everyday to be exploited. I'm not saying it's like that all the time. But you'd be suprised the kinda scum they let cart off children everyday.


Maby that statement was a little out of line. I had to spend some time in a home.

My dad left our family when I was 10 and my mom got MS and was disabled the same year, I was put into a boys home for about a year and some of the stuff I experienced there was...powerfull. My grandparents moved in with my mom and she was deemed fit to care for me at that point. But let me ask that you remember who adoption is about, the children.




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