Advice!!!!

gn1225 · (#1 (**permalink**))

Hello, im a male student and i am 15 years old.
I need advice, so please anyone just comment.
See the thing is that lately new people have been hanging around my best friend(who is also a male)
and i dont know why, but i sort of get jealous when new people are around him, and it somehow gets me a little mad.
Why is this happening??
What can i do, do not feel this way?

Acidreptile · (#2 (**permalink**))

There are 2 possibilities to explain that situation:

1-You are a homosexual and you are loving your friend.

2-You don't want concorrence and you don't want to share his attention with other people.What is quite common between friends.Male or female.

Choose one possibility.

Crani · (#3 (**permalink**))

That's just how the Human mind works, you want something you can't have and somebody you know as it, this is how the cookie crambles. As for what to do, just try to meet other people, mantaning the relationship with your friend, or just try to hang with the new people and him.

Gackt21 · (#4 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by gn1225

Hello, im a male student and i am 15 years old.
I need advice, so please anyone just comment.
See the thing is that lately new people have been hanging around my best friend(who is also a male)
and i dont know why, but i sort of get jealous when new people are around him, and it somehow gets me a little mad.
Why is this happening??
What can i do, do not feel this way?

Is there something that bothers you about these people or do you just want him to yourself so he can't make other friends. I would try to get to know his new friends. If he is a nice person then he as attracted them because of his kindness. They want to get to know someone that could help them out. Why don't you join him and get to know these people.

gn1225 · (#5 (**permalink**))

I'm not homosexual, so its
2-You don't want concorrence and you don't want to share his attention with other people.What is quite common between friends.Male or female.
im actually obsessed w/ him..cuz he is like my first american friend i met @the beginning of High School

Acidreptile · (#6 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by gn1225

I'm not homosexual, so its
2-You don't want concorrence and you don't want to share his attention with other people.What is quite common between friends.Male or female.
im actually obsessed w/ him..cuz he is like my first american friend i met @the beginning of High School

So Don't worry about that.It is human nature to be possessive I guess.At least it is for most of the humans.

But try to take it easy because those emotions can make you suffer.

gn1225 · (#7 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Gackt21

Is there something that bothers you about these people or do you just want him to yourself so he can't make other friends. I would try to get to know his new friends. If he is a nice person then he as attracted them because of his kindness. They want to get to know someone that could help them out. Why don't you join him and get to know these people.

well, some of them i dont like. Like there is this one kid who is like mean to me w/o reason so i hate him. Other kids are arrogant, but i dont really care about them so i dont worry if they hang around him. But yes there are centain things of some of the new people that i dont like.
haha sorry im weird >_<

gn1225 · (#8 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Acidreptile

So Don't worry about that.It is human nature to be possessive I guess.At least it is for most of the humans.

But try to take it easy because those emotions can make you suffer.

but what can i do to fix this??