Maybe Im A Little Too SHY....?

[Rin244]

um..ok....
hello! hope ur having a nice day!!!
anyway...

my family and i have been going to allot of public places....
with lots of ppl...and those ppl include really cute guys.....
and i REALLY luv cute guys...
but its not just the guys that im shy around....its the ppl
looking in my direction....
and i get real nervous about being by myself....
hell...i even get my brother to pay for my stuff cuz im too
shy to stand in front of a cashier and say thank u and take
my things and go.....
i dont like being in places by myself all that much....i mean...
i can be sumwhere by myself...just sumwhere where theres
not a lot of ppl

cud i ever get over this problem?
do i even hav a problem?!
or duz this happen to little 13 year old girls when
they start to become just a tad bit independent?

advice anyone?

[LittleFallenAngel]

hello!-smiles-
oh don't worry you don't have the problem alone,
I also got it alot -nods-
its scary,no?
even though,
you need to thank them and get the stuff, you'll get nervous right?
same thing as me here,
but after a while you'll get used to it,
just go on and talk with them, if you become more nervous, just be sure to not tremble to much, or just take a friend with you, so they won't make you nervous.
even though, if you get a bit more nervous then you already am with talking to the people behind the counter, just be sure to look them in the eye and speak, this will take some practice, but just try it, you'll feel more confident if you'll try to speak with the people behind the counter, or those guys you mentioned.
=).

as for me, I need to get used to it, not to tremble, not to get a bit to shy, just stay calm, they do not bite.
x)

[Rin244]

Originally Posted by LittleFallenAngel

hello!-smiles-
oh don't worry you don't have the problem alone,
I also got it alot -nods-
its scary,no?
even though,
you need to thank them and get the stuff, you'll get nervous right?
same thing as me here,
but after a while you'll get used to it,
just go on and talk with them, if you become more nervous, just be sure to not tremble to much, or just take a friend with you, so they won't make you nervous.
even though, if you get a bit more nervous then you already am with talking to the people behind the counter, just be sure to look them in the eye and speak, this will take some practice, but just try it, you'll feel more confident if you'll try to speak with the people behind the counter, or those guys you mentioned.
=).

as for me, I need to get used to it, not to tremble, not to get a bit to shy, just stay calm, they do not bite.
x)

ooo!! thank u very much!!really!
i mean..sumtimes i hav trouble speaking up when i tok too..
cuz i dont wanna say anything stupid that'll
make me look like a freak....
and...this one time..at the mall, i ran into this
reall cute guy....he sed sorry...but i just looked down.
i didnt even look at his face...but he went on...
and i just stood there.....
and four of his friends that were following him
just looked at me as they passed....but i
didnt bother to raise my eyes.....
they were too cute..
they took my breath away, i cudnt speak....

[Jaydelart]

I'm often like that too. You're not alone.
... But, sometimes, it can be a bad thing.
You must learn to face other people and be confident in yourself.
You may realize that there aren't as many eyes on you as you think.

Work hard, okay?

[MonsterMonster]

It's not a problem at all. ^_^
You just gotta fight being shy and be yourself no matter what~

I have a problem though, called Social Anxeity. No matter how large the crowd, I get nervous, claustrophobic and nausiated. I also start shaking.

So unless you have those things :P You're perfectly fine, hun.
Just gotta get used to the people ^_^

Cute boys? <3 I love those too

[Rin244]

Originally Posted by Jaydelart

I'm often like that too. You're not alone.
... But, sometimes, it can be a bad thing.
You must learn to face other people and be confident in yourself.
You may realize that there aren't as many eyes on you as you think.

Work hard, okay?

lol
thank u!! i'll keep that in mind
and i will work hard to not be shy!!!!

[Rin244]

Originally Posted by MonsterMonster

It's not a problem at all. ^_^
You just gotta fight being shy and be yourself no matter what~

I have a problem though, called Social Anxeity. No matter how large the crowd, I get nervous, claustrophobic and nausiated. I also start shaking.

So unless you have those things :P You're perfectly fine, hun.
Just gotta get used to the people ^_^

Cute boys? <3 I love those too

o! im soo sorry about ur social anxiety problem!!!!! really!!!

but thank u very much for the advice!!!

[MonsterMonster]

No need to be sorry ^_^ It's genetic, I get it from my father.

You're very welcome ~ I know being shy is tough, but you can make it :3

[LittleFallenAngel]

Originally Posted by Rin244

ooo!! thank u very much!!really!
i mean..sumtimes i hav trouble speaking up when i tok too..
cuz i dont wanna say anything stupid that'll
make me look like a freak....
and...this one time..at the mall, i ran into this
reall cute guy....he sed sorry...but i just looked down.
i didnt even look at his face...but he went on...
and i just stood there.....
and four of his friends that were following him
just looked at me as they passed....but i
didnt bother to raise my eyes.....
they were too cute..
they took my breath away, i cudnt speak....

your welcome<3
well, you are still not the only one XD.
I had that once when I needed to talk for an essay for school, which is quite a long time ago, you get nervous, can't say anything, start to tremble alot, and just stand up and be like
''.....''
><
awwww you need to try to face guys -nods-
it won't be that hard, just try it with some friend and stuff =).
or just try to get through it, because later you get alot of this things =3.

awwww -huggles-
you need to try to look at them and try to speak, even though how hard it seems, you need to get over those fears who make you too shy.

[MissMisa]

I'm like this too. The cashier thing, I just don't like buying stuff, it feels pretty intimidating. I got a lot lot better though, I went to London to see Dir en grey, without my family or anything. I had to do everything myself, ask for train tickets, food, buying stuff, and all that, so I grew in confidence. Best thing to do is take a shopping trip, by yourself, so that you have no-one else to rely on if you really want something. Once you do it yourself it isn't such a massive deal the next time.