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09-15-2008, 08:55 PM

I've been described as aggressive, patient, quiet...

The qualities of myself being naturally stubborn and creative often influence me to test the unconventional ways of things... This, subsequently, may lead to complicated failures.

I don't trust easily and am sometimes incapable of understanding others in deeper aspects, so I am constantly expecting the worst from people.
However, this attitude may change in time, depending on my experiences with them.

I admire everyone.
Everyone, even in their flaws, seems, in a way, beautiful to me.
I am learning that people are increasingly complex; it seems impossible to understand a person completely.
Observing people, their actions are influenced by a montage of various thoughts and feelings, and often we only see the outcome.
___The only thoughts I've ever truly thought were my own. As an observer, I hold a sense of admiration for people, even in their lowest.
This, however, also puts me in a state of confusion. A void where there is knowledge that I have yet to comprehend.
___As I am not skilled at reading people, I can only rely on this feeling as an assumption; my imagination. On the surface, the actions of a person may not be necessarily influenced by good nature, and therefore, I am susceptible to betrayal.
I accept this fact knowingly... Giving people the benefit of the doubt. But I always remain wary until convinced not to.

I've been told I can be very blunt. I believe the combination of doubt and hopefulness for the positive puts me in some position of neutrality or balance. I sometimes feel it is best not to invest too much emotion at risk of disappointment or betrayal, and, as a result, initially, a middle ground may be assumed.

I am tolerant of all interests, personalities and beliefs... But am easily agitated by lack of consideration for others, of extreme moral indecency or by irrational negativity. Respect is something I value immensely.

Life has proven to be neither against me nor for me... It is both simple and complicated... And I am constantly amazed by it's wonders; it's ugliness; it's beauty; it's cruelty; it's mercy; it's irony...

I could write a book, exploring the nature of my being, the quality of my soul and the world that I've been thrown into... And I could miss the point entirely.
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09-15-2008, 09:36 PM

Basically, yes. I have a sort of rule I go by. That life is too short to hold back, and you should always say what you think. My Mum always told me to say what's on my mind. I don't mind bluntless, but you can be blunt without being overly rude. You can say 'don't sit next to me in class because you're a fucking idiot,' or 'don't sit next to me in class because you always distract me.' It's always best to try the nicer version before leaping into being rude [although some people do just need to be told to fuck off sometimes.]

On JF I'm not as harsh as I am in reality. I'm not as rude or dirty or anything like that. But this is an all ages forum whereas in real life I am often with people my age, so what I say doesn't matter as much as here. It is more respectful to try to not offend someone and in return you will get respect.

I think that's basically it about myself. I get pissed off and angry very easily and quickly, but that's just my personality and sometimes I think it's a good thing to let people no you don't take any shit. As long as you have thought out your opinions before being angry, then you are usually alright. Otherwise you just look like an uneducated angry twat, and that's not good!

[Mini edit- this is a really interesting thread by the way!]



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09-15-2008, 09:37 PM

*bows head in shame*
I like to hear that there are things wrong with me, Health wise I mean, not like how I look or my personality.
I want to fix how people walk haha


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09-15-2008, 09:45 PM

Is this about owning up to your own faults?

I am obsessive, compulsive, too self-centered to take other people's worries into consideration (although I am always willing to help a friend when needed), I have faith in my future and tend to think it'll all go to plan (I've never had reasons to think otherwise but maybe it's about time I got a bit more realistic), I act on my interests (survival babyyy), I'm easily decieved, I tend to think too nicely of people so bad intentions catch me off guard, I sometimes worry about things that cannot be helped or are not worth the trouble, at my age I still can't take death, I don't mind hurting other people's feelings if it's required in order for me to achieve my goals in life.

I am a real bitch O.O


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09-15-2008, 10:15 PM

Me? I'm seen as selfish, arrogant, cold-hearted, and mean. To tell you the truth, I am mean to everyone. Even my closest friends are afraid to make me angry, they think I have anger issues beyond control. I can control the outbursts sometimes, but its kinda hard when you are passive-agressive.


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09-15-2008, 11:30 PM

I'm vain. I am overly concerned about my appearances.
I'm selfish. I'll do almost anything to get my way.
I'm impulsive. How rare it is that I think before I act.



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In the darkness under the moon he plots
In the silence of the night he kills.
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09-15-2008, 11:41 PM

I don't enjoy being mean,
I hope im a good person, I hate being ignored for whatever reason,
I can make friends with anyone given the chance,

I am Genophobic, I'll admit that, although i do understand and sometimes enjoy crude humor,

I am not rude, im honest,
I hope im likable



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09-15-2008, 11:48 PM

My new list :

i hate when yankees laugh when we say "y'all"
its much better than calling a group of girls "You GUYS"

I have selfesteem with my nose, but I'm growing to like it.


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09-16-2008, 12:07 AM

i am kind, generous, caring, loving, sweet, cute, pretty,etc girl
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09-16-2008, 12:08 AM

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I don't enjoy being mean,
I hope im a good person, I hate being ignored for whatever reason,
I can make friends with anyone given the chance,

I am Genophobic, I'll admit that, although i do understand and sometimes enjoy crude humor,

I am not rude, im honest,
I hope im likable

My disregard for my facial appearance is kinda sad, also



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