family probs.

Aniymay · (#1 (**permalink**))

hiya. do any of u guys live with divorce parent? i have and its tough. well im not here to tell alife story i wanna c if the majority of kids live n a family when the dad messed up and now hes gone. i no i did.

FreddyLea · (#2 (**permalink**))

i grew up in a family like that ... with just my mom ... didn't know my father till i was 10 ... and after getting to know him wish i had never met him.

orca · (#3 (**permalink**))

My parents never divorced I grew up with both but i'm a single parent myself, my son lives with just me & I guess yes its hard sometimes for him not having both parents but I feel it's better than having two who aren't happy together or one that isn't much of a parent at all like my ex.
Awful thing to say I kno but I wouldn't hav minded if mine had divorced &found happiness even if elsewhere, tho I can't say for sure cos they never did, they were robotic in parenting & never showed any emotion towards each other at all, my mother was a good housekeeper &child rearer & my dad a good provider, other than that I grew up with two complete strangers living in the same house, but then I suppose thats what happens in arrange marriages sometimes.

I'd really rather have two parents who are happy individually or with other partners than unhappy together, it's tough for parents too who've had kids together but don't feel compatible anymore & wanna move on yet b there for their kids & don't wanna upset them.
Not everyone ends up living happily ever after with the first person they hav a kid with, as long as theyre civil to each other &are there for their offspring as much as can be when living away from home it's a good sign. Of course staying together is better but only if they want to, if they don't they'll b unhappy & then so will the child.

darksyndrem · (#4 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Aniymay

hiya. do any of u guys live with divorce parent? i have and its tough. well im not here to tell alife story i wanna c if the majority of kids live n a family when the dad messed up and now hes gone. i no i did.

I have three words for this: Spelling and grammar.

Lovecom44 · (#5 (**permalink**))

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I have three words for this: Spelling and grammar.

kay, really?
it's not like all of your posts are grammatically correct, so don't call someone else up on it.

honoraryjapanesegirl · (#6 (**permalink**))

Misa cinco...(Me 5)...Yeah, I have a really tragic life story, won't get into it, but I can say is...yes, I know what it feels like and it feels like a horrible black hole swallowing up your heart.
XD Hope it helps...
~HonoraryJapaneseGirl~

darksyndrem · (#7 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Lovecom44

kay, really?
it's not like all of your posts are grammatically correct, so don't call someone else up on it.

Not all of my posts are grammatically correct, but I don't short cut words. Seriously, it's not hard to just spell out the entire word, and make it understandable. Typing like that is absolutely ridiculous.

Lovecom44 · (#8 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by darksyndrem

Not all of my posts are grammatically correct, but I don't short cut words. Seriously, it's not hard to just spell out the entire word, and make it understandable. Typing like that is absolutely ridiculous.

Not really. everybody types differently. I had no problems reading it, maybe you're just being extremely picky?

darksyndrem · (#9 (**permalink**))

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Not really. everybody types differently. I had no problems reading it, maybe you're just being extremely picky?

im nt beng pcky at all, its extrmly anoyin wen ppl don typ wrds out. ucwutimeen?

Are you dating the OP or something? I didn't think someone besides the OP would care about me saying that.

Aniymay · (#10 (**permalink**))

[QUOTE=orca
wow that was deep, but sadly its true. i know i felt the same way when my parents were arguing. they'd walked passed me like i wasnt even there. they had an arguement so bad once my mom took my bro and i away from him 4 about 6month and it was n the middle of my 1st grade year.