Elegant Gothic <style> , Lifestyle or Fashion?

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I've been very upset lately. You see I'm in an art school. As creativity brings expression, it shows in the fashion styles of my school. There is about everything you can find including lolita and many forms of western punk and goth.

Now before I opinionate anyone I'd like to say I do not believe in the ''Perfect Elegant gothic behaviour''. you would have some serious disorders to be the perfect silent Lolita or aristocrat, but thats only my opinion. We are human, we talk, we laugh and so we live.

However, the reason I'm writing this is to ask of all of you, where do elegant gothic ettiquetes begin and stop. I've seen to many Elegants being, well.. Not that elegant. Running around and making a fuss. I dont believe that tea and cake is a proper way of the modern loli/aristocrat, but our beloved style does bring a certain image.

what's your opinion on this JapanForum, and why?