But i dont live in mexico, i live in San diego california, i visit every month mexico though.

Well Taekwondo might be right for you especially if you already have standup martial arts training. But I can also see the wisdom in learning a grappling style. Have you searched your area for schools?

Aikido...
 

Aikido...
Heavy stuff,,, Seriously man, damn heavy stuff....

Well i alredy started taekwon-do lol thx a lot though.