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MMM 12-20-2010 02:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire (Post 842696)
Marriage is a piece of paper and can mean many things to many people as well as means to an end.

To the OP I would say that unless you are uber conservative. Just marry her for the convenience. It will make things a lot easier.
If you value your marriage as much as a piece of paper I would not count on making it to your 25th Anniversary Party.

Ronin4hire 12-20-2010 02:55 AM
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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 842697)
If you value your marriage as much as a piece of paper I would not count on making it to your 25th Anniversary Party.
Not quite what I said.

MMM 12-20-2010 02:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire (Post 842698)
Not quite what I said.
"Marriage is a piece of paper" is what you said. If I misinterpreted what you said, please enlighten me.

My point still stands, though. Yes, marriage can be different things to different people. I would just make sure it is that same thing for you and your spouse.

Ronin4hire 12-20-2010 03:04 AM
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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 842700)
"Marriage is a piece of paper" is what you said. If I misinterpreted what you said, please enlighten me.
I didn't just say that. Basically I was suggesting that marriage could be used a means to an end.

I'm surprised I'm having to explain this to you.

MMM 12-20-2010 04:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire (Post 842702)
I didn't just say that. Basically I was suggesting that marriage could be used a means to an end.

I'm surprised I'm having to explain this to you.
No need to be condescending Ronin.

My point still stands.

joshlad14 12-22-2010 03:20 PM
thank you all for your help. didnt think this would get as many replies as it has. I am just glad people can enough to post :) calling the embassy today wish me luck with my situation >.<


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