This is it!!!

Heather · (#1 (**permalink**))

im so tired of being single, and no matter how hard i try...i cant get a boyfriend. i love nerds and total assholes..which is like most guys. i dont care for looks, or popularity, or anything like that. the only thing i judge is a guy`s personality. so why is it so hard? why?

Excessum · (#2 (**permalink**))

Because you are only 14?

Heather · (#3 (**permalink**))

ive dated guys who are like 18 or even 19. and arent there any other guys out thre whos my age?

GodNickSatan · (#4 (**permalink**))

Why do you feel the need to date? You're still young, you should just enjoy being yourself until you meet someone who has the same feelings for you, and go forward from there. It will happen.

Heather · (#5 (**permalink**))

maybe because im one of those who feels so alone, and has a hard life, and needs someone to talk to?

GodNickSatan · (#6 (**permalink**))

That's what friends are for, right?

Heather · (#7 (**permalink**))

ive got friends. i need someone who i can love. someone i say anything to. u cant tell a friend just anyhting, you know.

reihiino · (#8 (**permalink**))

Why assholes? Is that the personality part you like? Maybe when you focus on other things is when that someone will come into your life. It doesnt need to be a priority.

Excessum · (#9 (**permalink**))

Quote:

Originally Posted by GodNickSatan

Why do you feel the need to date? You're still young, you should just enjoy being yourself until you meet someone who has the same feelings for you, and go forward from there. It will happen.

I agree 100%

Quote:

Originally Posted by Heather

ive got friends. i need someone who i can love. someone i say anything to. u cant tell a friend just anyhting, you know.

I really would not expecting that from a 18-19 year old boyfriend when you are only 14... in your place, i would stay away from such freaks o_O
And i suggest you get yourself a dog... or a monkey (they are really fun ^_^)

MusicLuver · (#10 (**permalink**))

You shouldn't be worrying about getting a boyfriend at your age. Trust me, I know how you feel, I've felt that way before, but you shouldn't look for someone just because you feel lonely and you want someone to hug you, talk with you or simply hold your hand, being with someone is about making that person happy not just making yourself happy. High school is a time of friends, so don't worry about any of that right now, when the guy for you comes he'll come