Child Adoption

[xYinniex]

Originally Posted by Nyororin

Go back through and read the whole thread, if you can manage to wade through the drivel.

We ARE trying to adopt in Japan. I stated that way way back in the thread, when I first posted. Japan does NOT, however, do international adoptions - which is what this whole thread is based on. People outside Japan wanting a cute little Japanese baby, which is simply not an option.

Yeah, Korea has been doing that recently- stopping the number of international adoptions. Some countries just have that policy, and you just can't fight it. A baby still a baby, whether its japanese or not, so what if its not cute.

[forgotenmemory]

I'd love to adopt a baby when I get older. For some reason it's more appealing than having a baby with a lady...o.o

[tofutofu]

Originally Posted by Nyororin

Japan does NOT, however, do international adoptions.

You are incorrect, they do have international adoptions.

Personally, I think the individual who started this thread is a bit daft. No one should adopt a child because they want a doll to play with or because they think it would be great to have a KAWAII Japanese child. But my information is not for that individual or individuals like them. There are people out their who wish to give loving homes to children, and they should not be told Japan is not an option because it is.

Yes it is difficult, yes it is rare, yes it is expensive, but it is legal and it does happen. Orphans are not as rare as the Japanese government would have you believe. Some say you need to have one parent be Japanese, others say you need to live in Japan for a period-- none of this is true as there are couples who are not Japanese and do not live in Japan who have adopted from Japan. It takes hard work and (as anything else in Japan) the right contacts.

In 2005 there were 40 children placed in homes in the US through international adoption.

Here are some links of individuals who adopted through international adoptions with orphans from Japan:

NetSato - Homestay, Japan, Hawaii, Parenting & Computers
anyone ever adopt from Japan? - Adoption.com Forums

Here is an adoption agency working to help adopt Japanese children internationally:
Across the World Adoptions

And here are some adoption stats:
Immigrant Visas Issued to Orphans Coming to U.S.

Good luck in your adoption process.

[Sinner]

You would be a lovely mother!

[Neffiline]

Thank you so much! This is exactly what I was looking for~

Originally Posted by tofutofu

You are incorrect, they do have international adoptions.

Personally, I think the individual who started this thread is a bit daft. No one should adopt a child because they want a doll to play with or because they think it would be great to have a KAWAII Japanese child. But my information is not for that individual or individuals like them. There are people out their who wish to give loving homes to children, and they should not be told Japan is not an option because it is.

Yes it is difficult, yes it is rare, yes it is expensive, but it is legal and it does happen. Orphans are not as rare as the Japanese government would have you believe. Some say you need to have one parent be Japanese, others say you need to live in Japan for a period-- none of this is true as there are couples who are not Japanese and do not live in Japan who have adopted from Japan. It takes hard work and (as anything else in Japan) the right contacts.

In 2005 there were 40 children placed in homes in the US through international adoption.

Here are some links of individuals who adopted through international adoptions with orphans from Japan:

NetSato - Homestay, Japan, Hawaii, Parenting & Computers
anyone ever adopt from Japan? - Adoption.com Forums

Here is an adoption agency working to help adopt Japanese children internationally:
Across the World Adoptions

And here are some adoption stats:
Immigrant Visas Issued to Orphans Coming to U.S.

Good luck in your adoption process.

[jpdrag0n]

i saw this thread and i thought "oh no...not again." im not about to read through 100 replies but as some people have pointed out before, its very hard to adopt from japan. people dont seem to get that through their heads. where do you see most asian children adopted from? china...korea...SE asian countries...but japan? not too much...actually never. the OP being white doesnt help the situation. no matter how 'persuasive' you are like the OP said in her first posts, being persuasive doesnt guarantee you a right to adopt a japanese baby. im just gonna say one more thing...some of you people need to wait...and mature...grow up. im 20 years old and the last thing im thinking of is adopting kids or marriage n all that bullshit. i mean, if its your dream to adopt a japanese baby...wtf man...live your life and go out and party.

[imeka]

I've never thought adopting from Japan was possible, I have a needle phobia, I won't be able to have kids because of all the shots that I've heard that mothers need. I saw a show about the chinese orphans and I cried. I'm going to adopt from China if I ever decide to raise a child. Babies are fine, I can handle them. I'm actually babysitting twin boys that just got over their colic. They scream and cry and they're getting spoiled and always want to be carried. But it's totally easy, I've already gotten used to it. I plan on taking the Jet program years from now, my japanese is getting better, and I've been to Japan once, I could converse with the locals, even if it was simple and short.

[SSJup81]

Originally Posted by imeka

I've never thought adopting from Japan was possible, I have a needle phobia, I won't be able to have kids because of all the shots that I've heard that mothers need.

The shot isn't necessary, but if you want to ease the pain of the birthing, you get the Epidural done. You can choose to go all natural and not have any type of painkiller.

[ItalianLeather]

Originally Posted by Nyororin

And to insert some reality into this thread....
Japan doesn`t have an adoption policy. Meaning there aren`t a whole lot of Japanese girls up for adoption *in* Japan, to Japanese parents... Let alone to those in other countries.

I would suggest China or Korea. I highly doubt you`ll ever be able to adopt from Japan.

hmm ive heard about that

i wonder why that is...

[DivineBled]

Originally Posted by ItalianLeather

hmm ive heard about that

i wonder why that is...

As mentioned earlier, you can adopt from Japan, but it is very time consuming, and very very costly.