friendship or luv?? which one that u prefer???

[Thunda]

Originally Posted by Excessum

If a friendship is on a verge of turning in-to a more serious relationship - take that step. Broken hearts heal, but regret and doubt will gnaw you until your death. And even if it does not work out, it will be the ultimate test of how strong your friendship actually is... if you remain friends, then both of you will only gain from it, if not, then the friendship was not worth a naked penny...

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Thank you Excessum! LOL

[kyo_9]

I prefer friendship but love is something one cannot hide..
prepare yourself..

[TalnSG]

To me friendship is only a less intense level of love.
Or maybe I'm greedy, because I will not choose between them.
Both run their own course and I merely strive to foster and appreciate my part in the journey.

[chaseme]

This had happen to me. And my choice back then is something i regret until now.
I choose friends. I was afraid that she cant return my feelings and rather be her friend than not be a part of her life at all. My Highschool graduation is the last time i saw her 3 years after that we meet again and she confessed to me. we should have been been 4 years now, i still consider those 3years is a big loss to my lifetime, good thing i still got the rest of my life to make up for it.

- is this what the OP mean?

[EveV]

I want a lover that I'm best friends with.
Nothing less.

[Ageha08]

this is difficult choice.
I think friendship and love can walk together.
sometimes love grows from friendship.
I choose friendship.

[manganimefan227]

Friendships.

Theres just less stress to them.

[Bento]

friends are awesome. too bad when you get old relationship with them will most likely change as even if u stay a kid at heart they'll probably marry and "fit into society." but it'd be really lucky if you could stay the same and not change.
Right now for me love isn't worth. Although I want it inside, but the lazy in me tells me its too much work. Maybe I could meet someone who would make me change this view.

[jdragon]

this line was said in a drama but I think it's really true...
"You can't choose between them. They are like one package. Either you choose both or you give up both."

I prefer both. I personally cannot love someone without being their friend.
If I love someone then I'm their friend & they are mine.

[KitsuneFr]

Friendship is a very nice thing, but when you'll have to leave your home to make your life far away, even if you wanna keep in touch with your former's ones, you'll certainly make new friends in your new location and cannot manage the time to keep in touch with your former ones, even if now we have internet or mobile or so...

Don't forget to have friend is so great thing that you must put most of your free time to manage it. By this I just mean you have to sacrifice parts of your life (time, interests, etc...) to your friends when they need you. And it is that I find great, 'cause in friendship you don't have to think of you first but thinking of your friends.

I lost my former friends when I began to work, 'cause I went far away and making fastly news. But after I took a lower profile and get married and so didn't making fiesta or metal concerts or so...

I found a family, which I find it is sometimes hard, sometimes cool, and now those I can name friends are very good work fellows with I'm working on since more than 10 years.

I also made two or three penpals on the net, I don't want to manage 50 people like that, but for those I have I really take care of them and try to mail them almost 5 days a week. And so they are too. And they are from thousand of kilometers from France, so we have to manage time lag if we want instant chat.

So my conclusion would be friendship is a kind of love, but in every case in friendship you shouldn't ask to receive (even if your friends are good you'll receive) but it is up to you to give... kindness, love, help, compassion and so on...

I expect I could have given a valuable answer anyway