friendship or luv?? which one that u prefer???

KeRolKizam · (#1 (**permalink**))

yeaah.. this dilemma had happen 2 u right? sometime, we would choose for luv that will make us feel comfort and taking cared.. but, what about friendship?coz.. sometime, there would be a condition when.. if we choose for love,thn.. we will lost the frienship..
so.. which one do u prefer???

MarkDuff · (#2 (**permalink**))

Love has to start some where you know..........and most time it is born out of a friendship..........and the two friends had desided that it was time to tak another step in their relationship

KeRolKizam · (#3 (**permalink**))

yeahh.. but, ya knw.. it is common thing that love start from relationship right?? this happened to my fren.. she make a boyfren with is truly besfren.. n after a month that boy changed.. he nvr listen to my fren.. n thn, i dunno how.. after having a sex.. that damn boy lefted my fren.. huhu.. so.. it is better if, friendship is for freindship.. n, for luv.. it doesnt need a frienship either..coz u can feel it by urself if you love someone evn if u dunno him/her as well..

MarkDuff · (#4 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by KeRolKizam

yeahh.. but, ya knw.. it is common thing that love start from relationship right?? this happened to my fren.. she make a boyfren with is truly besfren.. n after a month that boy changed.. he nvr listen to my fren.. n thn, i dunno how.. after having a sex.. that damn boy lefted my fren.. huhu.. so.. it is better if, friendship is for freindship.. n, for luv.. it doesnt need a frienship either..coz u can feel it by urself if you love someone evn if u dunno him/her as well..

that's no always the case man........your one friend probly left her for another reason that you don't know.........and from what I have seen with my friends (btw are in high school) will go out with a friend because they are trust worth and they have still been to gether for a long time. And they don't seem to be going to break up for a long time........the thing you need to always remember is that every person is different and will have different relastionships with different people.

And you are right you can love a person with bearly knowing them but unless you get to know the person or they fell the same way about you.......but if you love some that you bearly know most likly it won't work out.....the person they ask will probly be weirded out and won't talk to the guy/girl for a while......of meyba not at all..........but every one has a different opinion other theses things.........and I could also be wrong....so fell free to correct me if you happen to think so.........

KeRolKizam · (#5 (**permalink**))

huhu.. thanks for the opinion bro.. not all the people are same right.. huhu.. err, can i ask something? are u still studying??

MarkDuff · (#6 (**permalink**))

that depends on what you mean by studing.........if you want pm me about so I can get back to you later cuz I've got to go.......later Mate

Kayci · (#7 (**permalink**))

I would take the latter. But then, both times, then and with now, I fell for my best friend.

And currently, aside from the romanticism, me and my boyfriend still act like how we were as best friends.
It's just now the rest of the affections we feel for each other are more open, but there is still lots of teasing and play-fighting like as friends. (I used to pick on him and wrestle him, he has scars from me xDDD)

But I know I could happily live my life with him as something more...
...iunno if I made sense...
but I chose, i guess, a mix of both after all.