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True Love - 04-03-2008, 09:01 PM

when your boyfriend or girlfriend says they love you
how do you know they're telling the truth and how do you know if your as important to them as they make you believe?

How do you know if your true love to them?



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when your boyfriend or girlfriend says they love you
how do you know they're telling the truth and how do you know if your as important to them as they make you believe?

How do you know if your true love to them?
You don't. A lot of the time actions speak louder than words. If you see them acting a different way towards you, there's a reason for it.


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04-03-2008, 09:05 PM

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when your boyfriend or girlfriend says they love you
how do you know they're telling the truth and how do you know if your as important to them as they make you believe?

How do you know if your true love to them?
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Well, from small gestures, and tone of voice. When she only says it from passion, she is lying to herself. But randomly says that, often, that's good.
Like, you two are sitting and he stares at you, and he says he loves you.
Well, that's more true than saying it around other people or in the heat of passion.


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Well, from small gestures, and tone of voice. When she only says it from passion, she is lying to herself. But randomly says that, often, that's good.
Like, you two are sitting and he stares at you, and he says he loves you.
Well, that's more true than saying it around other people or in the heat of passion.
what if he wasnt staring at me but has said it to me...



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what if he wasnt staring at me but has said it to me...
Well there are no laws for this that he only loves you if he stares at you and such. I suggest you to make sure by asking questions and not straightly ask him.
And/or learn from his gestures. That's the keyword. Gestures.


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A lot of the time actions speak louder than words.
That's right. Words don't prove shit, actions do. My boyfiriend tells me that he loves me all the freaking time, but it's not the fact that he says it a lot what makes me believe him, it's the way in which he shows it what actually does.


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Well there are no laws for this that he only loves you if he stares at you and such. I suggest you to make sure by asking questions and not straightly ask him.
And/or learn from his gestures. That's the keyword. Gestures.
well what kind of questions? and what kind of gestures? (if you dont mind answering)



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That's right. Words don't prove shit, actions do. My boyfiriend tells me that he loves me all the freaking time, but it's not the fact that he says it a lot what makes me believe him, it's the way in which he shows it what actually does.
Exactly, although I dont see point in lying. It's not school or something. It's your free will, if you dont want anymore, then break up. like that. So, whats the point in saying if you dont? to get headed?

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well what kind of questions? and what kind of gestures? (if you dont mind answering)

Ugh it's too late. XD Questions like, what is more important to you, a smile or a kiss? >.< like those. Well, you know your boyfriend, you gotta know these questions. try to ask questions that give you an answer to the main thing: Is he with me just for my body and to hmm well yeah to have sex and the like or because of my inner side.

gestures? well, I really cant answer that. Every people has different gestures, yet not, to know that, you gotta know the person.

If he asks why you ask this, tell him you just wanted to know, >.<


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That's right. Words don't prove shit, actions do. My boyfiriend tells me that he loves me all the freaking time, but it's not the fact that he says it a lot what makes me believe him, it's the way in which he shows it what actually does.
Indeed. And when they start behaving differently, you can assume that something is up, whatever that may be.


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Exactly, although I dont see point in lying. It's not school or something. It's your free will, if you dont want anymore, then break up. like that. So, whats the point in saying if you dont? to get headed?




Ugh it's too late. XD Questions like, what is more important to you, a smile or a kiss? >.< like those. Well, you know your boyfriend, you gotta know these questions. try to ask questions that give you an answer to the main thing: Is he with me just for my body and to hmm well yeah to have sex and the like or because of my inner side.

gestures? well, I really cant answer that. Every people has different gestures, yet not, to know that, you gotta know the person.

If he asks why you ask this, tell him you just wanted to know, >.<
well ummmweve been together for six months now and have onl officially kissed twice and when ...we....lol ok can i pm you i dont want the whole world knowing



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