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06-21-2008, 09:53 AM
@ strawberryshinya
Of course I don't know the exact facts (like which countries you are from, your age, how long you do know each other etc. - but important facts), but sometimes things turn out that way. At least it is very honest of him to tell you that distance is a problem for him. Sometimes couples break up after years because of distance. I know you must feel horrible now. Maybe you should talk to him about your feelings. But if he doesn't want to try it, you cannot force it. It is possible that you end up even more hurt than now.  
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06-21-2008, 10:08 AM
hi i am Brittany and i may be 14 years old but you said he is cute you like him but you don't realy know him but go for it this way you can get to know him and have a boyfriend.>^_^<
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06-21-2008, 10:12 AM
good advise katja that is true if he realt does like you maybe he can see you some time soon and you could make plans to see each other whenever he can so be happy.>^_^<
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06-21-2008, 11:30 AM
thanks. ^_^....
but he lives in the middle east and i in the u.s. i respect his space. n if he is truly happy as he is, who am i to be selfish n take that all away? i may not be happy my self but at least he is. thats all i want. i just wish one day to meet him in person. even if it is just to be friends...  "And yet to say the truth, reason and love keep little company together nowadays." -William Shakespeare A Midsummer Nights Dream Act III, Scene i
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06-21-2008, 11:47 AM
kokunin that was not very nice to cuss so much she really likes him so dont ruin it for her i had a long distance relationship and it worked out fine i lived in Mexico four three years and before i left a guy that lived next door asked me out and now im in the USA i broke up with him though because i couldnt afford
to phone him and at the time i didnt have a computer or cell phone now i wish that we could have stayed together but i have met new people my heart has been broken so many times it cant be broken any more but i will always feel pain.>^_^< my dreams have come to an end. my happiness has come to an end. my hopes have come to an end. but my pain and fears remain for eternity and will never come to an end so why don't i just die today? +{Member of the Crusnik Clan--Crusnik 04}+ +{Codename: Abel}+
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06-21-2008, 04:08 PM
Uhm well...
Long distance relationships can and do work, but only if you, yourself have the self patience in waiting a long time for something to happen. For me, I'm an impulsive person, i always think in the sense that 'what if i'm waiting for this certain person, and a better one comes by and i miss it?' But then again, thats me. I think, firstly you should really ask yourself, whether you'd be willing to give up alot of time for this relationship? Are you patient enough?  I OFFICIALLY own the following bad boys Shinji(SID), Yuuki(Ancafe), Inzargi(MEGAMASSO), JaeJoong and YunHo (DBSK), Mayo(Panic☆ch), EunHyuk & Lee Teuk(Super Junior) and Kai(The Gazette),Saro (Kavki Boiz) I half own/care for Teruki(Ancafe), You touch, You DIE.
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06-22-2008, 12:14 AM
ill be patient. im more than willing to wait.. but he doesnt want a relationship. so ill be his friend. if he happens to fall for some one closer to home...ill cheer him on.
"And yet to say the truth, reason and love keep little company together nowadays." -William Shakespeare A Midsummer Nights Dream Act III, Scene i
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06-22-2008, 12:55 AM
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06-25-2008, 02:22 AM
They do work..But with a long distance relationship trust is always the biggest factor to make or break the relationship...
I would give it some time but don't act overly into him...Guys like to talk..but not about the same subject for more than 5-10 minutes. So always keep the topics changing until you find something he likes to talk about.. Also...Talk about yourself..but not a lot about yourself. And if he talks a lot about himself..it shows he has no intention of knowing who YOu are as a person..so try to keep the conversation going back and forth. "I like cheetos..Well the puffy ones..What about you?" Or you can not ask him and see what he says...if he responds with a positive reaction like 'haha nah i kinda like the crunchy ones because..." GOOD SIGN! You also gotta remember if you decide to go with the long distance relationship.. PLEASE for christ sakes trust him...Most long distance relationships die because there's no trust..Why would he bother being with someone he cant hold or touch if shes gonna act like a psycho girlfriend? He can just leave you for someone close to him? So if he is taking the time and effort to be with you in a long distance relationship...You obviously mean something. Hip's DeviantArt Page!  Hip's MUSIC: Inoar on MP3.com!-Inoar on Virb!-Inoar on Yippi!-Inoar on BoostInM!-Inoar on GarageBand.com!-Inoar on iLike!-Inoar on FaceBook!-Inoar on StumbleUpon! 
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