[R18]love+sex

[Alastor]

Hyakushi, I think your lcation says enough about what kind of person you are.

[cinti720]

love
sex

both very different i guess..

[Slykaz1]

Originally Posted by Hyakushi

Hehehehehe its called sarcasm you just had a de de de moment.

Eh its not like I can just leave her in the dirt its not that easy, I have things to do before I leave her Hahahahahahahaha *justifying*XDDDDD

you haven't.....OMG is shocked... And how long have you been with her?

[MissMisa]

Originally Posted by Hyakushi

I can't just dump her!!!! baka I have to at least help raise our kid but I'm not sure how I will feel once I get back home I guess thats the reason why I'm nervous about it. I haven't been home for almost three years and all of a sudden I'm let free to go home but then what happens. Do I get an office job, will I just go back to dealing drugs (face it that pays) I dunno what I'm going to do. I was fresh out of high school when I went into the military and not in a seriuos relationship before that well I was for awhile but that didn't last and so I started seeing my girlfriend now. Should this really effect our reationship although what you people say is Being in Love with someone is soooooooo strong that you will turn blind to everything that is around you?. It doesn't work that way.

You leave her. You get a decent, hard-working job, and pay your way for the child. You see your child as much as you can. Being in a relationship like that is disturbing enough, but knowing that you have a child just makes the situation worse. Being in actual love doesn't make you blind, it just stops you wanting to be with anyone else if that is so hard to understand? If your child sees this going on between you and your girlfriend, they will see your girlfriend being angry and frustrated and pick up negativity from your family. You need to decide between 1 - carry on the way you are, meaning your child is exposed to potential arguements and upset because of your actions. 2- You can stop being a sexually crazed freak and stay faithful to the women you apparantly 'love.' Or 3 - You can save the child from being exposed to arguements and fights between you and your girlfriend, and grow up in two safe, stable homes.

Who knows, it's your life.

[Suki]

Originally Posted by Hyakushi

that is what I think Sex is just Sex love doesn't have to be there in order to have relations with someone who is not your spous.

And here we go again... *sighs*

Get it straight: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T LOVE IF YOU HAVEN'T COMMITTED TO ANYONE BEFORE!

Originally Posted by Hyakushi

I don't hide what Ive done cause there is no reason to hide it but I'll hide my porn though cause well its porn XDDDD.

Wait... are you saying that you don't mind telling her you've fucked around with other girls but you hide your porn??? So, she's okay with you having sex with other girls but she'd go insane if she found out you own porn magazines, videotapes or whatever? Just... wow O.Ô I gotta meet that woman.

Originally Posted by Hyakushi

If she has no reason to be with me than why is she still with me?

Dude, that is what we all wonder! x)

[Slykaz1]

Originally Posted by Hyakushi

I can't just dump her!!!! baka I have to at least help raise our kid .

You're with her because of your child? That is one dumb reason. I have to say that you are making a big mistake staying with her, because you have a child with her. Now. If you don't live with her....well that's a whole different story. But if you're with her, because of the child....I'm sorry but your child will end up suffering the consequences. If you and her are not on compromising terms. Meaning...you both have to figure out a way that won't hurt your child. A child who grows up in a home where the parents don't love each other....is not a healthy one.....arguements flare and the child ends up in the middle. You and her need to think about what's best for the three of you. Including the factor of who is going to be hurt.

[Orodreth]

Originally Posted by Slykaz1

You're with her because of your child? That is one dumb reason. I have to say that you are making a big mistake staying with her, because you have a child with her. Now. If you don't live with her....well that's a whole different story. But if you're with her, because of the child....I'm sorry but your child will end up suffering the consequences. If you and her are not on compromising terms. Meaning...you both have to figure out a way that won't hurt your child. A child who grows up in a home where the parents don't love each other....is not a healthy one.....arguements flare and the child ends up in the middle. You and her need to think about what's best for the three of you. Including the factor of who is going to be hurt.

I agree. Sometimes, against what most people think, it's not healthy to "stay together for the kid."

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by Orodreth

I agree. Sometimes, against what most people think, it's not healthy to "stay together for the kid."

Then what do I do? I don't want to just dump her like that. I was thinking maybe untill our kid is at least 10 or 15 but I'm not sure about it cause well I haven't really seen them for a long time. I'm just tripped out about it cause what if she changed or what if I changed too much. Well I'm a better person than when I first met her but still considered a scumbag XD.

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by Alastor

Hyakushi, I think your lcation says enough about what kind of person you are.

My . . . lcation O_o!????? . . . what ever you say dude

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by Slykaz1

You're with her because of your child? That is one dumb reason. I have to say that you are making a big mistake staying with her, because you have a child with her. Now. If you don't live with her....well that's a whole different story. But if you're with her, because of the child....I'm sorry but your child will end up suffering the consequences. If you and her are not on compromising terms. Meaning...you both have to figure out a way that won't hurt your child. A child who grows up in a home where the parents don't love each other....is not a healthy one.....arguements flare and the child ends up in the middle. You and her need to think about what's best for the three of you. Including the factor of who is going to be hurt.

Thats the best thing Ive heard all day but its not that easy the way you make it seem well I have a whole year to figure things out XDDDDDDD. I'm not sure but the place we live is not the best place to leave someone with a child, then again she has her family right so its nothing to worry about right?. I dunno.