[R18]love+sex

[pumpum]

Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

Geez I hate psuedo-science.

Sex is pleasurable yes. If it was a chore the world would be a lot less populated yes. But to justify sleeping around because of it is jumping to conclusions. In fact there are more biological reasons to suggest that humans are naturally monogomous rather than promiscuous species.

For one the size of human testicles compared to other primates is one clue. The bigger the testicles in relation to the size of the body overall, the more promiscous the species is. Bonobos (I think it was them... it's been a while since I last checked) are naturally promiscous. As a result they have evolved big testicles so that they can produce more sperm and ensure that the chances of successfully impregnating a female are high as well as flushing out another males sperm (The concept is known as sperm competition). Silverback gorrillas on the other hand live in small groups and as a result are monogomous. Their testicles haven't needed to evolve into anything as big as the bonobo as they have enough sperm to impregnate the one partner they are likely to have. Human testicles are not big enough for a purely promiscous lifestyle. However they are proportionally significantly bigger than the silverbacks which suggests that naturally humans are somewhat
monogomous however need to "compete" for a mate.

LMAO !!! Dude u know waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayy too much about testicles lol !

[Ronin4hire]

Originally Posted by pumpum

LMAO !!! Dude u know waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayy too much about testicles lol !

Hehe touche

[catapillera1]

i think most people,guys and girls,would like to have a lot of sex !!
but they want to find someone who loves them 2 !

[xX2DXx]

Love and Sex are two different things that can be kept apart or blended together depending on the person.

[NanteNa]

They don't HAVE to have anything to do with one another.

[Slykaz1]

Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

(So we have motivation to pro-create... that's nothing new.)

So a creation from rape is a motivation?

Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

Especially when evidence SUGGESTS (note how I'm not jumping to conclusions about what is "human nature") that humans are naturally monogomous. And the testicle thing is not the only example. Another example is the emotion love. Caused by a chemical in the brain, the feeling of being "in love" is actually a condition which has evolved from the fact that human children have always to a degree, NEEDED both parents around a while after it is born, for survival purposes. Animals that are NATURALLY promiscuous usually don't produce this chemical and are typically only raised by one parent (the mother) or are brought up socially.

I heard this somewhere....Oh I know....That animal planet channel when they were doing that report on...on...on hyenas. I think it was.....You know this almost applies to those people that called themselves followers of faith..... sex wasn't a pleasure it was an obligation of marriage. Most women back then who were married off to men that they didn't "love" had to participate the sex thing in order to "pro-create." Tis a very sad thing. *sigh* anywayz. Call what you all like.....sex and love will always be viewed differently no matter who thinker is.

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by Slykaz1

So a creation from rape is a motivation?

Thats why it happens

[Orodreth]

Rape is the result of people who have no morals and/or no selfcontrol and don't know how to go about things.

If you need to have sex THAT bad then go get a hooker, rape is one of the lowest things you can ever do.

[Ronin4hire]

Originally Posted by Slykaz1

So a creation from rape is a motivation?



I heard this somewhere....Oh I know....That animal planet channel when they were doing that report on...on...on hyenas. I think it was.....You know this almost applies to those people that called themselves followers of faith..... sex wasn't a pleasure it was an obligation of marriage. Most women back then who were married off to men that they didn't "love" had to participate the sex thing in order to "pro-create." Tis a very sad thing. *sigh* anywayz. Call what you all like.....sex and love will always be viewed differently no matter who thinker is.

Wow... you're all over the place

I can't really see the need to quote my post to support your rambling... I don't really see the relevance.

[Matley]

Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

Sex to me is an expression. Like a dance, you need to move to your partner and know them well. This can involve love but not necessarily.

Originally Posted by xX2DXx

Love and Sex are two different things that can be kept apart or blended together depending on the person.

Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

...I'd add that the worst thing she (or you) can do is build up the moment. i.e. put sex on some sort of pedestal etc.
Sex is sex. Be responsible sure, but have fun with it and be yourself.

That's wise.

Sex alone is arid.
Love alone... I think a person need to become much mature in order to live with his/her partner, truly love he/she and not have sex.
If you think, when people get older, usually the interest moves from sex to take care of the family.
Love and sex together are simply the best you can have from them.
As some1 said earlier in this thread, that's probably the reason why it's the most spread condition of people in every culture.

IMO the problem is that most of the people usually mistakes love with the "falling in love" process, which is a very different thing.