[R18]love+sex

[chaseme]

If you think, when people get older, usually the interest moves from sex to take care of the family.

i think i agree with this one. from what my experience i am only excited about it for the first few times we did it. but later i lose interest on it to a point that my ex's is the one that initiate.

[MissMisa]

Originally Posted by Matley

If you think, when people get older, usually the interest moves from sex to take care of the family.

I don't think that's true. Not everyone wants a family, I know for a fact I don't. I suppose though, instead of my family, I'd think about my career. Still, I'm in full time education and it doesn't stop me having sex Though I suppose since I'm a teenager it will probably be different when I'm older.

[Orodreth]

apparently in a study they declared that women who wait to have sex after they get married have it more regularly/often than women who havn't.

[MissMisa]

Originally Posted by Orodreth

apparently in a study they declared that women who wait to have sex after they get married have it more regularly/often than women who havn't.

Hm, well to be honest, that sounds like bollocks to me.

[Thunda]

how come...religious warnings about sex were only to reduce the number of unwanted children.

[Orodreth]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

Hm, well to be honest, that sounds like bollocks to me.

idk, it sounds like it's more of the "too much of a good thing" effect.

I mean, even pleasureable things become old after a while. But, if you have all that sexual tension, and have never done anything in your life, until you get married, you'll prob. wanna have lots and lots of sex, especially cause it's a new, and fun thing for you to do.(just my speculation)

[Matley]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

I don't think that's true. Not everyone wants a family, I know for a fact I don't. I suppose though, instead of my family, I'd think about my career. Still, I'm in full time education and it doesn't stop me having sex Though I suppose since I'm a teenager it will probably be different when I'm older.

You got the point.
I'm getting close to 30 and I don't feel I want a family yet.
But I'm sure that when I'll have it I'll be more worried about my kids than about having sex.

Originally Posted by Thunda

how come...religious warnings about sex were only to reduce the number of unwanted children.

That's a good reason to warn about sex for sure.
Now let me make clear, I'm not a religious person. Even though I'm from Italy, I never go to church and I believe more in common sense than in God.
But I found out that there are actually some good reasons to restrain sexual activity.

Now think: how would you feel after a month having sex twice or more times a day?
I'd say something close to depressed, bored, tired...
And how do you feel after a month without sex? (in any form)
I'd say electric, excited, restless...

So, what's right?
Have it balanced, not too much, not too little.
Like anything else after all.

[Thunda]

Originally Posted by Matley

So, what's right?
Have it balanced, not too much, not too little.
Like anything else after all.

indeed. That is how we should live our whole life.

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by Orodreth

Rape is the result of people who have no morals and/or no selfcontrol and don't know how to go about things.

If you need to have sex THAT bad then go get a hooker, rape is one of the lowest things you can ever do.

Ive met plenty who have morals and even went to church, paid there taxes, never broke any law. Yet they commited rape <.< there just like any other person but clean rape I think is better than going with a dirty hooker anyday. XD

[TalnSG]

Actually the driving force behind most rapes is a power struggle, not the sex itself.
Its just that submission in this form is the usually the most extreme violation of personal space one can experience because a sexual act is so very personal.