[R18]love+sex - Page 2

kokunin · (#11 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Slykaz1

I wonder how many guys out there have had to force their lips to say "I love you" so they can get some bed action.....

I HAVE NEVER EVR DONE THAT, not once...you usually have to act as sincere as possible in the most "i at least liek your but-her-head-body..." as possible and they still might giv eit up. GIRLS GIVE IT UP TO MAKE THEMSELVES FEEL BETTER, liek a guy's gonna stay because you let him get you, big mistake...its funny, girls are always angry because guys leave them, then you ask them, when the girl herself gets attached and there inlies the problem, guys who really liek you will be around for 6 months without it... (not saying they won't jack off or look at porn, but...you know he has to have some kinda thing to hold his nuts (the screws in his head) together). But seriously, abstinence does 2 things, gets rid of the bad asses (in every connotation the word is meant), and it saves yoru ass from STD's and other shit that sex brings along...now here's the kicker though, i think you should be taught BOTH, not one, but both, even docters will say, the best policy for sex is to not do it at all, BUT shit happens so use a condom (it has the highest effectiveness, 97%, but then again if you think about it, if you do it 100 times 3 of those times, was liek doing it without a condom), second being diaphrams...and so on and so on, with the pregnancy thing, second comes this spermicidal gel thats liek 85% but you gotta wait 15 min for it to kick in, so i hope your young and using that mug...lol Okay now love...if the guy LIKES YOU for your personality, not just yoru body, he'll think you're worth the wait...so wait 6 months, but DON'T tell him, seriously, DON'T TELL HIM!!! at all...if he knows the goal, he'll reach it, if he doesn't knwo the goal and you say, maybe in the future, then that puts a "forever virgin" sign on your ass...which then once again drives away the bad asses...bad asses are only good for a fling, that goes for women too. I had a bad ass (i'm only 19 but damn if i didn't try some shit) and she was HOT, but for some reason she was like, "whatever, i know you cheatin' on me..." I'm like, "Why cheat on you, when i got what ANY man would want.." You knwo how you say that shit to females and they think, "okay..." I mean, damn this chick was fine, dominican republi, had a S&M tinge to her (not the mistress example, but some biting and alittle spanking) , damn was she fun, but that bitch was CRAZY than a mother fucker, whoever fucked her over should be pissed on by R Kelly, cuz' damn maaaan...i would'a stayed if i wasn't cheatin' on her too...lol yeah i'ma dog, i know, i sniff it and run to it, simple...

Heather · (#12 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by chaseme

How are they related in your own opinion.

well heres how i look at it.. sex is love

Ronin4hire · (#13 (**permalink**))

Sex to me is an expression. Like a dance, you need to move to your partner and know them well. This can involve love but not necessarily.

Orodreth · (#14 (**permalink**))

I personally believe that you do not have to be in love to have sex. But, that a lot of people, can't JUST have sex with someone. That when they go to have sex, it is usually to make love, and they wind up hurting themselves, because someone played them, and they allowed themselves to put emotion into something like that.

In example: If I were to have sex with my gf, I would make love with her, because I am in love with her, I have amazing feelings for her. But, if i were to have sex with someone else, it would JUST be sex, it would just be for the sexual pleasure and not for the emotional bonding and such, do you know what i am trying to say?

Heather · (#15 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Orodreth

I personally believe that you do not have to be in love to have sex. But, that a lot of people, can't JUST have sex with someone. That when they go to have sex, it is usually to make love, and they wind up hurting themselves, because someone played them, and they allowed themselves to put emotion into something like that.

In example: If I were to have sex with my gf, I would make love with her, because I am in love with her, I have amazing feelings for her. But, if i were to have sex with someone else, it would JUST be sex, it would just be for the sexual pleasure and not for the emotional bonding and such, do you know what i am trying to say?

so u sayin dat u have sex wit your girl for love, and u go sleepin wit other women too? dat sounds messed up to me

Kyumika · (#16 (**permalink**))

Some people just have sex for fun...

Heather · (#17 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Kyumika

Some people just have sex for fun...

yah for fun or for love..thats how i see it.

Orodreth · (#18 (**permalink**))

Nonono, you misunderstood what i was trying to say.

I don't have sex with other women, nor am I allowed to, and I don't even have sex with my girlfriend.

I am saying that if i were to have sex with my girlfriend it would be for the emotional experience and the bonding and such. Whereas if I wasn't with her, and I had sex with someone, it would just be for the pleasure and fun.

So basically how i say it. It's like...Sex with someone who you are in love with isn't sex, it is 'making love' per sey. While, having sex with someone who you are not in love with is just sex.