[R18]love+sex

[Slykaz1]

Originally Posted by kokunin

GIRLS GIVE IT UP TO MAKE THEMSELVES FEEL BETTER,

Nope. Not all girls.

Originally Posted by kokunin

guys who really liek you will be around for 6 months without it... (not saying they won't jack off or look at porn, but...you know he has to have some kinda thing to hold his nuts (the screws in his head) together).

Then he's not really a "great" guy. He'd have to wait until she wants to give it up.

Originally Posted by kokunin

the best policy for sex is to not do it at all, BUT shit happens so use a condom

True...only girls who are true to themselves will say no and those easily coaxed will do it.

Originally Posted by kokunin

so i hope your young and using that mug...lol Okay now love...if the guy LIKES YOU for your personality, not just yoru body, he'll think you're worth the wait...so wait 6 months, but DON'T tell him, seriously, DON'T TELL HIM!!! at all...if he knows the goal, he'll reach it, if he doesn't knwo the goal and you say, maybe in the future, then that puts a "forever virgin" sign on your ass...

A firm "no" works....It lets you know if he's only in it for the sex.....he'll ask again later. When he does....you know right then and there it's all about sex.

Originally Posted by kokunin

I had a bad ass (i'm only 19 but damn if i didn't try some shit) and she was HOT, but for some reason she was like, "whatever, i know you cheatin' on me..." I'm like, "Why cheat on you, when i got what ANY man would want..".........i would'a stayed if i wasn't cheatin' on her too...lol yeah i'ma dog, i know, i sniff it and run to it, simple...

men who do shit like this are pigs. They expect their woman to stay true to them and they pay them back with shit like this......this is how STD's get passed around.

Besides you can't judge all women with the ones you've had. Some women have tried to abstinate. But a jack-ass jerk-off thinks she's good enough to take, he'll take what she does not want to give up. And then what do you call them women? Even after an ordeal like that, what do they have to show for themselves. Dignity? Pride? Nothing. They show nothing, they sometimes become afraid of being touched by a man. And if they ever do marry, they only think it'll be violent. Like they're first time.

You need to open your mind and see what the real truth is out there about women. Cuz the day you happen to have a 14 year old daughter crying in her room and she won't tell you what happened. You'll be thinking differently from what you are thinking now.



Having sex has no feeling between the two....

Making love is a sensation that is felt by both....

[pumpum]

Originally Posted by kokunin

whoever fucked her over should be pissed on by R Kelly, cuz' damn maaaan

LMAO !!!

my minds tellin me no..... lmao roflmao !

[MissMisa]

I just wanted to ask, why is this rated 18 when you can legally have sex in most countries at the age of 16?

Anyway, I am 17 but I'm going to post anyway, if anyone has a problem with that I won't post again.

Well bascially, love can go with sex, but sex doesn't always go with love. I think that you should probably only have sex with a person who you are in love with, or it may cause problems and you may regret it later on. As for someone who has a lot of one night stands, I think that's extremely unwise. I'd rather not expose myself to multiple STDs >.< There is always a chance the condom could break.

Some people see sex as just a pleasureable experiance but I see it as bringing two people closer together, as well as that. I seriously wouldn't feel right having sex with a person I didn't love, but that's just me.

[MissMisa]

Originally Posted by superheel

If you had sex before marriage then most probably you will not end up being together for lifetime. Though not in all cases.

That's not true. And so what if your not together forever? If you were in love with the person and you were both consenting and felt it was right at the time, there is no reason to regret it.

[Alastor]

Ahh, this one is a classic!

Everyone's opinion on sex differs. For instance, sex is easily acquired through random hook-ups, prostitutes, etc. and while it is a pleasure and all...

I personally think sex is overrated. I haven't had sex for about 3 or so months now (might be 4 months), and I generally don't find myself missing it. It's been a really damn good while since I was with someone I truly cared about, and someone I was comfortable with. Like uhh, 3 years ^^ the things you can basically get only from a relationship with someone you're really fond of, those things makes the love+sex thing what it's cut out to be.

If someone asked me to either let me have sex once every month for 12 months with a hot chick, or give me $1500 to buy myself that guitar I wanted, I'd probably go with the guitar.

Then again, that's just my opinion, but there's a reason why people 'lose the spark', etc. and to many, it's about a lack of sex life. This usually often means there's less attraction, but in that case it was never the emotions of liking someone in that 'special' way. There are like, loads of other reasons too so let's not go into that.


Here's something interesting though: Generally, having sex on a regular basis (I think it's between 1-3 times a month or something) is healthy. All this 'let's not have so much sex' etc coming especially from girls leads to unhealthy sexual frustrations in a guy. Most of the time, the girl is actually not bothered with sex herself, rather she's worried about how others will perceive her. So in essence, society's major tabu on sex is unhealthy. Girls need to loosen up when it comes to most things sexual, and we all need to tell apart attraction to the physique from attraction to the character.

[MissMisa]

Yeah I agree that sex is overrated and people should just calm down and stop making such a massive fuss of it.

However the whole stereotyping girls to not want sex as much as men, and men get all sexually frustrated because of it, is in my opinion, crap. Girls want it just as much as guys do [usually] but I guess they are just more subtle about it and less likely to talk about it.

[Alastor]

Originally Posted by Alastor

Most of the time, the girl is actually not bothered with sex herself, rather she's worried about how others will perceive her.

^_^ My point was right there that it's not so much about girls not having the same sexual desires, but the fact that society in general is structured in a way that makes them far more cautious about it than guys.

This Swedish comedian had something fun to say about this. He said:

"When my daughter grows up, I wat her to have sex with every guy in her high school." Then he goes on and says: "NO! How could you say such a thing about your own daughter?!". To which he replies (to himself): "Yeah, but if I said that I wanted my son to have sex with every girl in his high school, you'd tell him what a stud and what a man he was."

I think this kind of mentality needs to sort of stop. Man or woman, if you're loose, you're loose.



EDIT: Sexual frustration on man's part is most likely there for women as well, only it's usually the girl that's unwilling. We know it's a biological thing - us guys wanna spread our seeds, while the chicks like to know that if they're helping a guy spread the seeds, it better be a good guy. It gets a little over the top when eery girl is waiting for the best and has to put the guy on a several months long trial xD

[MissMisa]

Originally Posted by Alastor

^_^ My point was right there that it's not so much about girls not having the same sexual desires, but the fact that society in general is structured in a way that makes them far more cautious about it than guys.

This Swedish comedian had something fun to say about this. He said:

"When my daughter grows up, I wat her to have sex with every guy in her high school." Then he goes on and says: "NO! How could you say such a thing about your own daughter?!". To which he replies (to himself): "Yeah, but if I said that I wanted my son to have sex with every girl in his high school, you'd tell him what a stud and what a man he was."

I think this kind of mentality needs to sort of stop. Man or woman, if you're loose, you're loose.



EDIT: Sexual frustration on man's part is most likely there for women as well, only it's usually the girl that's unwilling. We know it's a biological thing - us guys wanna spread our seeds, while the chicks like to know that if they're helping a guy spread the seeds, it better be a good guy. It gets a little over the top when eery girl is waiting for the best and has to put the guy on a several months long trial xD

Ahh, I see. Yes I agree with that completely. If my Dad found out I was having sex he would be like NOOO! But my brother would get a slap on the back and a 'nice one there lad.' -_-=

[Slykaz1]

Originally Posted by Alastor

Man or woman, if you're loose, you're loose.

Man being "loose"....hmmmm....never heard it that way before.

You're right tho....a man's daughter having sex is a no-no, but a man's son having sex whole other story.

But I think that's only because the girl can end up pregnant. And the boy can say "it's not mine." Those risks in a girl parents really don't want to see. But majority of those parents don't even bother to sit with their kids and talk directly about sex.

[Alastor]

Oh come on, a man who's willing to sleep around with everyone is desperate, got nothing else going for him and is an easy catch. LOOSE, I say!