Problem...

[LittleFallenAngel]

Okay so I thought I could better ask some people around here><...
You see..I got a little problem since a few days.
There is a guy who loves me.
But I don't love him, but I see him more as a friend..
I told him that and he still tries to get me loving him...
Though I prefer being single and stuff... But I love him as a friend not as a boyfriend...
Since I got this thing already stuck in my head now for a couple of days...
I really got no idea what I should tell him now and those stuff, I mean, I still talk to him..
But when I go offline he's going to wait for me till im back online and those stuff -_-;;..
Though I tell him not to get to tired but then he's not listening to me...
*head desks*
So what to do?=/...

[KikiBunny23]

Well, you're in luck. I actually have the same problem had it for....the past few years. But what I did was tell him. That's all there is to it. I mean, not be mean about it but tell him how you feel. Tell him you still want to be friends but maybe he would have better luck going for another girl. One who does love him...

[LittleFallenAngel]

*Nods*
I did told him it way before O_o;;;...
But hes still trying to get me fallen in love with him...=/
Though I told his best friend about it to tell him that.
And his friend told him about it.
And that guy asked me about it and I told him it was true but he didn't belive me and those stuff>_<;;..
Now im kind of screwed o_o;;..
I told him it but he doesn't belive me O_O;;...
*head desks*

[chaseme]

If he loves you, there isnt much you can do about it.
just make it clear to him that you cant return his feelings. sooner or later he'll understand. Also say foul when he crosses the boundaries of friendship if you let him continue doing gestures for lovers he might get the wrong idea

[KikiBunny23]

I guess you are screwed. But thats ok. The guy that likes me thinks we're datin I tell him different and I kinda have the same problem as you. But I never see him so its ok for me...maybe you could just find a way that you don't have feelings for him like that

[LittleFallenAngel]

haha X'D.
I knew I was screwed><...
*sighs*
This could take a while o_o;;
Especially since hes comming next week over to my house...
Horrible thing is..
I told him not to come because I need to study(entrance exams ><) and he does come...x_x;;
So this will become a bit troublesome...
><..

[KikiBunny23]

ohhhh, thats bad. really bad
maybe you could find something to keep him busy for a few minutes, go to your room and 'accedentally' lock the door. and 'don't hear him' if he calls for you

[Kiyuge]

Well there isnt much you can do but what I would do is have him look me in the eye and explain that his feelings couldnt be returned at that you were sorry but it wouldnt work with you. If he really loved you he would most likely understand all you gotta do is make him listen.

[chaseme]

or better yet get a restraining order

[Kiyuge]

Originally Posted by chaseme

or better yet get a restraining order

xD Fun ~_~