Relationships

[BigB]

just thinkin to myself - whats the worst anyone has been hurt in a relationship? i will start... bein that i've just come out of a relationship n pretty heart broken.

was with my current gf, who is now my ex, for 4months, not a long a time i know ... but it can be for some people... found out that she was pregnant, woo i was gona be a dad little boy or girl, that was my baby, i found out a week later that she had cheated on me and now doesnt know whether the baby is mine or his... im now having my doubts and i now know that it isnt my baby - i use protection EVERY time...


anyone else?

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by BigB

just thinkin to myself - whats the worst anyone has been hurt in a relationship? i will start... bein that i've just come out of a relationship n pretty heart broken.

was with my current gf, who is now my ex, for 4months, not a long a time i know ... but it can be for some people... found out that she was pregnant, woo i was gona be a dad little boy or girl, that was my baby, i found out a week later that she had cheated on me and now doesnt know whether the baby is mine or his... im now having my doubts and i now know that it isnt my baby - i use protection EVERY time...


anyone else?

Time to plan on a blood test. Till then you can expect to be right, but its not guaranteed. Protection is not prevention, it does fail sometimes. In any case, discovering her affair would be problem no matter who turns out to be the father.

[BigB]

true ... shes just made everything worse by cheatin, im still certain that it isnt mine, but we have already got a blood test coming along in the next 2weeks

[TalnSG]

It was the worst relationship I ever had, but that story reminds me of one that ranks right near the top of the list.

During my second year of college my boyfriend and I were discussing marriage and he had agreed to give me time to consider. I was having some issues with the relationship and would have been changing my whole future plans. Then my roommate told me of a plan he shared with her to get me to say yes. He was going to get me drunk and not use a condom. Well that night I was not as drunk as he thought and let him try to follow through on his scheme. I grabbed him in a manner that got his complete attention and explained how quickly he had better dress and exit. It ended up being the last time he was ever in my apartment, much less my bed. I made it very clear that pregnancy would only have made me want to maim him.

[Asakura]

The worst relationship I ever had was in my last year of high school I had a girlfriend and I went shopping with her. And really took an intrest. and I wrote her a check for her birthday so she could go shopping for herself. Becouse I had no Idea what to get her that she didn't already have. And she ended up lifting my signature. And took out a 20,000 loan in my name. After they heard what happened I didn't actually have to pay the fake loan...per se. But after that I kept my money to myself. The way I figure it, love dosn't equal money. Money seems to win alot of the time.

[Slykaz1]

Ouch that's bad....

My worst relationship.....I was with this guy for about 9 mths....Long distance relation....And one day in a conversation I found out that he had beted that he was going to be able to bed me. I confronted me and at first he was nervous about it then reacted to not know anything about it....And I left him, I was very pissed off. I think If I hadn't left I would've choked him.

[TalnSG]

I had an LDR once where I got replaced by a woman I introduced to him when she needed sheltering from an abusive husband. In the long run it was ok, but at the time she was still married and I had come to visit him in Massachusetts. They tried (rather unsuccessfully) to hide what was really going on while I was there, but by the time I left we had hashed it all out and I was kicking myself for not leaving as soon as I suspected the truth. At least i had a blast in Maine before heading back to Texas.

[yuujirou]

Originally Posted by Asakura

The worst relationship I ever had was in my last year of high school I had a girlfriend and I went shopping with her. And really took an intrest. and I wrote her a check for her birthday so she could go shopping for herself. Becouse I had no Idea what to get her that she didn't already have. And she ended up lifting my signature. And took out a 20,000 loan in my name. After they heard what happened I didn't actually have to pay the fake loan...per se. But after that I kept my money to myself. The way I figure it, love dosn't equal money. Money seems to win alot of the time.

what a b!tch..
._.'''

[TalnSG]

So anyone ever have the relationship that your brain told you from the beginning was a bad idea, but you dove in anyway and learned 1st hand that your instincts were right? Or the one you were in and knew you should get out, but just couldn't walk away from?

[Kayci]

egads...
Heh...I told my story in another thread, but I'm pissed for my friend;
They were together for almost a year, and he cared for her a lot. I was actually friends with both of them before, and he almost didn't get with her 'cause he couldn't forget a dead girlfriend of his...

But anyways, for awhile, all was good, till she started becoming the wicked fricking bitch of the west. About two months ago, he would start being sullen, and after me and a friend probed him some, it seems like all she did was ignore him and play video games, no matter what. At school, she'd follow him around, call him boring, saying he needs to grow up, etc etc.

This guy worked his ass off for her, though, and trust me, he's not boring. He sends me and other people into gales of laughter. But she's been on a pity-party craze, and acting all depressed until some other guys gave her attention. :/

My friend gave her the following; A real sakabatou, his own nintendo DS with rurouni kenshin stickers, and he was saving up for months to get her wii and bunch of new games. Not to mention other things...

but the reason why she broke up with him? She has a "tumor"- proved later to be false, she forgets she has siblings- and that he kept getting mad at her and was 'causing her stress that could kill her.

Nothing could be further from the truth. He worshipped the ground she walked on. Plus, i do know of whatever stress she recieved, it wasn't him. she lied to us, and treated like he was bother her for a long time, and it drove him crazy.

...and trust me, it was hard not to curse like a sailor saying this.
He's one of my closer friends, he helped me and my boyfriend...i hate that she did this too him, and I think violent thoughts often now 'cause she's playing the victim at school. So close to snapping at her and telling her just where to stick it. She blamed it on him, yet he's hurting himself to go near her and still make it clear and talk it out.