how can i mend a heart i broke

[deathnotegirl]

well you see i didn't really know what was going on in the first place... so i got online to ask a friend how something went than i get a IM from a friend of mine telling me that i broke his heart a few months ago when he was the one who broke mine and so we start talking and i find out he tried to kill himself today b/c i wasn't talking to him but i was and he wasn't talking back... so he starts to blam me for his broken heart... and now i feel bad and i just wanna kill myself thats how bad i feel...
so does anyone have any advice for me?? it would help me alot

[MMM]

Originally Posted by deathnotegirl

well you see i didn't really know what was going on in the first place... so i got online to ask a friend how something went than i get a IM from a friend of mine telling me that i broke his heart a few months ago when he was the one who broke mine and so we start talking and i find out he tried to kill himself today b/c i wasn't talking to him but i was and he wasn't talking back... so he starts to blam me for his broken heart... and now i feel bad and i just wanna kill myself thats how bad i feel...
so does anyone have any advice for me?? it would help me alot

First of all, please don't kill yourself. There is no reason to do something so rash over a misunderstanding.

Is there someone at home or a friend close by you can call and talk about this to?

[Narutocrazy101]

Her parents wont understand MMM...

[TalnSG]

First, you can only mend something if you are around to try. Suicide is rarely the answer to anything.

Second, if he took the time to tell you he was hurt, he is probably still open to resolving the misunderstanding. Since you say he "tried" to kill himself, I asume he was not successful so there is still a chance to work things out.

I remember being on both sides of this sort of situation and I learned the only thing that worked for me was to accept that hearts get broken, and sometimes they get mended quickly and sometimes it takes forever. But no one is worth killing yourself - ever.

Take some deep breaths, try to still the avalanche of thoughts that keep coming, then decide what you want to say to him ..... calmly and quietly.

[Fooflowers]

ARGHH THIS FREKEN GAME!!!!
anyways

Killing yourself will solve your problem(in a very selfish way) and make like every instant family member and close friend of yours feel like they let you down and blame them selves some might get depressed/kill themselves, so yeah ending your life is not the answer.

Sounds like you need some one to talk to, thers a few hot lines you can phone 24hrs a day and they are ther to listen id give them a call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) if not try to talk to a trusted friend, teacher/school councilor.

[pumpum]

has anyone ever considered that maybe sum1 as shallow as these people who want to take their lives over something so trivial and silly dont deserve to be alive ????

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by pumpum

has anyone ever considered that maybe sum1 as shallow as these people who want to take their lives over something so trivial and silly dont deserve to be alive ????

Actually, yes I have.
I have also considered how worthless the life of someone without compassion is, and wondered why they continue to keep breathing.

[pumpum]

One should have compassion for starving africans, earthquake victims, tornado survivors, murdered people, disabled people and people with cancer who have been told there life is about to end.

as for someone who wants to kill themselves because they are upset that their boyfriend/girlfriend is upset........compassion should be saved for those who truly deserve it and a good wallop round the back of the head administered.

[Fooflowers]

Originally Posted by pumpum

One should have compassion for starving africans, earthquake victims, tornado survivors, murdered people, disabled people and people with cancer who have been told there life is about to end.

as for someone who wants to kill themselves because they are upset that their boyfriend/girlfriend is upset........compassion should be saved for those who truly deserve it and a good wallop round the back of the head administered.

Good thing you don't run suicide hot lines, eh?

Every one needs a good kick in the but from time to time, put theres a time and a place for everything and treating every 1 the same doesn't work, its better to help them out of this emotional wreckage (sotospeak) gently instead of just being like "LOL EMOFAGGOTS PLZ DIES ALREDY YOU SADS ALL TIMES LOlSZ!1!1!"

[Thunda]

What the fuck is wrong with children trying to commit suicide these days.

DON'T HURT YOURSELF. I have been deeper in hell, and I'm here. Just talk about it with him IN PERSON.

Both of you will feel better yet shittier. A few weeks and it will be alright.

Don't listen to people who never felt doing so, they cant even imagine.