is it possible to have a japanese girlfriend???

[lontok]

I´m kind of curious I´m going out with a japanese girl here in london She´s kind of difficult to me She never believe in what I´m saying to her

if I said that She´s pretty She would said that She knows that´s not truth

or She´ll start to compare her self with any other girl in the street trying to make me see her point so is kind of weird isnt==??

like a week ago I went to meet her she said that she has no time taht day but she was kind and sweet to me I leave a short hand writting with my personal details coz I´d lost my mobile & She did not call to my until now any japanese point of view to that, I would like to make it clear that She said to my that I like her... so I
´m lost pls any help welcome

[hennaz]

It's definitely possible to have a Japanese girlfriend. One of my Mum's friends married a Japanese lady and recently had a child together. I too have a Japanese girlfriend, but she lives all the way in Yokohama for now (how sad... ).

[xYinniex]

she's either

1. Fishing for more compliments
2. She doesn't like you in that way.

thats the blunt truth

[koaku]

Originally Posted by lontok

I´m kind of curious I´m going out with a japanese girl here in london She´s kind of difficult to me She never believe in what I´m saying to her

if I said that She´s pretty She would said that She knows that´s not truth

or She´ll start to compare her self with any other girl in the street trying to make me see her point so is kind of weird isnt==??

like a week ago I went to meet her she said that she has no time taht day but she was kind and sweet to me I leave a short hand writting with my personal details coz I´d lost my mobile & She did not call to my until now any japanese point of view to that, I would like to make it clear that She said to my that I like her... so I
´m lost pls any help welcome

Duuude...its like that with EVERY GIRL..!! lol not only Japanese girl..Me i think you need to have a serious chat with her ..but she just seems to not be very confident..

So COMPLIMENT..COMPLIMENT COMPLIMENT!! And with time its gonna pass..

[ARose]

Well, as a girl, I don't like to be complimented too much. Of course I do like to get them!! Everyone does - even guys. But, if my boyfriend tells me how pretty I am 5 times a day it: A - loses it's effect, and B - starts to make me uncomfortable. I don't know why but maybe that's the same for her. Or maybe someone in the past really did make her feel like she was the most unattractive thing on the planet and she really believes it now. In which case, it's important to keep telling her she's pretty, but she's probably going to feel uncomfortable about it for awhile.

As for the no call for a week... there could be a number of reasons. Just ask her what she's been up to.

Or like Yinnie said - she might not be interested in you that way, and she might just be fishing for more compliments. Us girls are complicated creatures. Good luck!!

[forgotenmemory]

Originally Posted by ARose

Us girls are complicated creatures. Good luck!!

Yes, you are. -.-

[NanteNa]

Uhh.. Your english is kinda broken. But from what I can see, she's not interested.

[Fumouffu]

It's not just Japanese girls who get like that.. ALL girls can getlike that. XD You could continue to say what you say to here and attempt to prove it no matter what... or you could just shrug it off... what it sounds like is that she just wants more complitments. Girls like that! We say those things to try and get you guys to say more. It makes us feel special. But if it bothers you you should try and bring it up to her.

[Asakura]

It just dosen't sound like she's into you. Being honest your best bet is to let her go. But if you think there's a chance just don't take it too far. If she tells you she dosen't like you, just let it go.