What would you do?

Melis · (#1 (**permalink**))

Would you change for your boy/girlfriend?

Example:

I always wear highheels pumps etc. My ex once said to me; ''I dont want you to wear highheels, pumps. why do you wear such slutty shoes. You look like a ho..''

Well.. lets say he did not say the last part..
But I would never stop wearing those things.. just because he dont like it..

And yeah.. the relationship was over when he said that i look like a ho..just so you know:P

How about you? How would you react? Would you consider to change? Or not?

(and sorry for the bad english:P)

Uriko · (#2 (**permalink**))

i wouldn't change anything for a boyfriend if he knows it's something i enjoy & it doesn't cause harm to anyone. for example, wearing high heels. (i don't wear them, but let's just say i do) if he thinks i look like a slut in them & that i really really like heels, then i'm going to still wear the heels & i'm going to dump him. 'cause not all guys think that about high heels. he just sucked.

now, if there was something really wrong about me, like maybe the fact that i'm a drama queen & it causes problems & a lot of arguments, then..yeah, i'm going to try to change that for him. but only if i think he's worth changing for. ^_^'

Salvanas · (#3 (**permalink**))

A couple are supposed to be understanding to anything that their other half likes, even if they are annoyed by it. Unless it's life ruining, or relationship ruining, I would not ask my GF, nor will I change anything I wear/do because of that.

james1254 · (#4 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Melis

Would you change for your boy/girlfriend?

Example:

I always wear highheels pumps etc. My ex once said to me; ''I dont want you to wear highheels, pumps. why do you wear such slutty shoes. You look like a ho..''

Well.. lets say he did not say the last part..
But I would never stop wearing those things.. just because he dont like it..

And yeah.. the relationship was over when he said that i look like a ho..just so you know:P

How about you? How would you react? Would you consider to change? Or not?

(and sorry for the bad english:P)

was he shorter than you when you are wearing heels? :P
No you shouldn't change for other people unless its something bad for you as well.

CarleyGee · (#5 (**permalink**))

I wouldn't change myself, it's too bad for him.

Aniki · (#6 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by CarleyGee

I wouldn't change myself, it's too bad for him.

Hell, if I were your bf I definetly wouldn't want you to change anything. Only an idiot would want that.

CarleyGee · (#7 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Aniki

Hell, if I were your bf I definetly wouldn't want you to change anything. Only an idiot would want that.

Ha. If that's a compliment, then thank you. ^_^

Melis · (#8 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by james1254

was he shorter than you when you are wearing heels? :P
No you shouldn't change for other people unless its something bad for you as well.

Hahaha lol..
We had the same height when i wore my highheels..:P

xYinniex · (#9 (**permalink**))

he can go die. Seriously. he doesn have the right to say what you should wear and what you shouldn't.
I would have slapped him and then dumped him and humiliated him in front of his friends.

But then again, im a evil bitch. so....=D

CarleyGee · (#10 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by xYinniex

he can go die. Seriously. he doesn have the right to say what you should wear and what you shouldn't.
I would have slapped him and then dumped him and humiliated him in front of his friends.

But then again, im a evil bitch. so....=D

Hahahahahaha.
Seriously. I'm sure we would want to change something bout them too.
But you're supposed to like them for who they are, and if they don't like
that . . . then whatever.