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Can a relationship survive in complete chaos? - 10-22-2008, 11:09 PM

K, so I have a friend who is married to this girl. Good match, though they are always fighting. They seem to be going ok, but then I here that she might be thinking about cheating on him. So my question is is a relationship doomed because of trivial matters and little arguments? or can it thrive even in this sort of environment?
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10-22-2008, 11:51 PM

If it can't work itself out in all the mindless twiddle twaddle of life, then it was doomed from the start. :\

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10-22-2008, 11:53 PM

In a situation like this, I'd think it's hard to come to any conclusion about how this might end. Because, as it is the way humans have come to think, all things come to an end- good things included.

Although there may be a good match, bad things can still ensue. If there's too much tension and not enough compatability to counter-balance it, the marriage may just fall apart.

However, out of every bad thing, comes a little good as well... So, perhaps the marriage WILL thrive? It all depends on what happens and when. Maybe something will happen and they'll suddenly be reminded about how much they love each other.

Like I said, NO ONE can predict the future and it's outcomes.

I hope things turn out for the best anyways! Good Luck, my friend!

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10-22-2008, 11:54 PM

K. From what i hear she has been flirting with another guy. BTW it's actually my bro, so...

Should I tell him or let it sit would be the next question.
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10-22-2008, 11:56 PM

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K. From what i hear she has been flirting with another guy. BTW it's actually my bro, so...

Should I tell him or let it sit would be the next question.
I'd tell him. It's the right thing to do... but I dunno how your bro will take it. He might just blow it off or maybe even become more interested in the girl. I dunno.
But, telling him would still be the right thing to do, ya know?
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10-22-2008, 11:58 PM

Yeah, I'm gunna see how things go first. Hopefully everything works out. He is not the kind to let things go lightly...
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10-23-2008, 12:00 AM

that's good to hear. A devoted man like him can find a way to save it. Have faith in him, at least, mm'kay? GOOD LUCK again! d(^o^)b



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10-23-2008, 12:07 AM

Good luck.


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