Have you ever dated someone from the Internet?

[Excessum]

Originally Posted by noodle

Nope, Never have, never will i think... Of course i've made a friend or two online. But have never dated someone unless i'm actaully physically able to see them!!

mwahahahaa... noodle said never... lmao

Anywho... "dating" someone online is a complete waste of time, since you can not have any physical interaction and develop any feelings towards a person you have never met... if, somehow, some kind of feelings do occur, then they are not towards the person who is sitting on the other side of the screen, they are towards the image of this person that has been created in your head...
Aren't you too old to have imaginary friends (or lovers, as in this case)?

[Suki]

Originally Posted by Excessum

Anywho... "dating" someone online is a complete waste of time, since you can not have any physical interaction and develop any feelings towards a person you have never met... if, somehow, some kind of feelings do occur, then they are not towards the person who is sitting on the other side of the screen, they are towards the image of this person that has been created in your head...
Aren't you too old to have imaginary friends (or lovers, as in this case)?

I used to think that way but somehow experience has proved me wrong. I agree with you though about the last bit, you can't wholy be in love with someone you've never met, like face to face, before but trust me, it is possible to grow feelings for someone you have met on the net, whether they last or not or how reliable they truly are... that is another story.

[Excessum]

Originally Posted by Suki

I used to think that way but somehow experience has proved me wrong. I agree with you though about the last bit, you can't wholy be in love with someone you've never met, like face to face, before but trust me, it is possible to grow feelings for someone you have met on the net, whether they last or not or how reliable they truly are... that is another story.

Let him be reliable or not, you still don't see the whole picture of the person: you don't see his attitude, the way he talks to people, the way he acts, his flaws, which is part of personality... you develop feelings towards the image that is created by what he tells you and what your fantasy adds to it, not form your real life observations.
When you meet a person in r/l, your opinion is created not only from what he tells you, but from many other aspects as well, right?

[drummachick]

Nope. But a family member has. She used eharmony....worked out pretty well for her. I wouldn't try it though....too creepy for me and too easy to be a big fat liar.

[miyavikuun]

yes i have actually im still dating him but i dont care since it is an internet bf and im dating another one i hate them i talk to them then they just decide oh me are bf and gf and on internet they are really grabby(internet wise)

[sailorscout20]

Originally Posted by miyavikuun

yes i have actually im still dating him but i dont care since it is an internet bf and im dating another one i hate them i talk to them then they just decide oh me are bf and gf and on internet they are really grabby(internet wise)

I have had that happen before, it suck because sometimes they just wont leave you alone and follow you to whichever thread your on.

[miyavikuun]

Originally Posted by sailorscout20

I have had that happen before, it suck because sometimes they just wont leave you alone and follow you to whichever thread your on.

i only talk to them on msn so i dont go on that much cause of them and they piss me off they are like do you love me and im just like suuuuure but for some reason i dont want to say something like i dont love you now just go away!!!! i dont know why

[sailorscout20]

Originally Posted by miyavikuun

i only talk to them on msn so i dont go on that much cause of them and they piss me off they are like do you love me and im just like suuuuure but for some reason i dont want to say something like i dont love you now just go away!!!! i dont know why

Just tell them that you found a boyfriend where you live, or that could backfire and they bother you more. I dont know what to tell you

[miyavikuun]

Originally Posted by sailorscout20

Just tell them that you found a boyfriend where you live, or that could backfire and they bother you more. I dont know what to tell you

well one of them said that i can have a real bf where i live and the other one didnt say anything but one of them live is australia and the other somewhere in the us

[sailorscout20]

Do you like them?