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Post In love with a young girl - 12-07-2008, 11:41 AM

Hello there

I have got a problem. I am 24 and I live in Tokyo. My girlfriend is 16. We both want to have sex (up to a certain extent) together but I don't know what is legal and what is not in Tokyo. I know there are laws against things like enjo kosai. But this isn't anything like that. We are really in love. I don't give her money, although sometimes I treat her like any gentleman with his girlfriend.

I know the laws vary with the prefecture. There are a lot of contradictory rumors. Anyone knows about the real legal facts in Tokyo?

Thanks for you help

Mario
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12-07-2008, 11:48 AM

I don't have any advice.... I'm just curious as to what you could possible have in common with a 16 year old.
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12-07-2008, 12:03 PM

We have a lot in common: food, music, movies... And she is quite mature for a 16 year old.
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12-07-2008, 01:14 PM

Unfortunately According To The Japanese Law, You Can Not Have Any Sexual Activity With Anyone Under The Age of 18.

Japan Legal FAQ - Is the age of consent in Japan really 13?


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12-07-2008, 03:27 PM

How do you even meet a 16 year old and start dating her?


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12-07-2008, 03:29 PM

psh. as long as you don't broadcast to the people in the area that you have sex. >.>

My friend dated a 27 year old before, and she was 17 at the time.


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12-07-2008, 03:29 PM

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Unfortunately According To The Japanese Law, You Can Not Have Any Sexual Activity With Anyone Under The Age of 18.
I think this is a mistake. Can anyine read the following Japanese entry on Wikipedia?

性的同意年齢 - Wikipedia

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How do you even meet a 16 year old and start dating her?
I met her at Starbucks. She was studying English and I just said Hello. And then... you know.
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12-07-2008, 04:05 PM

if you guys are so in love why rush things?
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12-07-2008, 04:11 PM

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if you guys are so in love why rush things?
I agree.


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It's okay if she loves you, but if I would be in your shoes I would wait 2 or 3 years.


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