in love with a taken japanese girl..

[ZedKnightly]

hello!

as for the questions, i dunno if you meant my reply yesterday. i am in japan so, when its evening here, its morning there (in the US)
and vice versa. if you meant that i reply even during night and day (with regards to US time),
guess ill have to confess that well... i am a computer programmer after all.. my work is computer related.. in short if its daytime here and i reply it means im sneaking in a reply from my work computer.
(like what im doing now)
well what can i say.. dont tell me im the only programmer who does this.

Originally Posted by spicytuna

That's none of your business is it?

And what's to say that you're next in queue if her relationship goes sour?

Nobody is asking you to go cold turkey on her. Just put her aside for now and get out more! Meet new people, start new hobbies, explore new ground.

Trust me! Life is too short to be sniffling over a single girl.

as for this one, im not saying i know ill be the one next in line if their relationship gets sour. But thats also why im doing this, so ill be that one. i mean, girl wont come to me if i dont do anything..

i know ive been asking for opinions with regards to my actions / decisions, then have been contradicting some.

at some point during this ive been leaning on giving it a shot. but like i said, i wont steal her the mean way, nor the good samaritan way. nor am i trying to be robin hood (steal girl from the undeserving and give her to the deserving, me lolz). im just trying what i can so that if her relationshp gets sour, or her relationship isnt worth keeping then i can fight for her.

[ZedKnightly]

2 days left and ill go back for a 2 week vacation.. i wanted to at least go out with her before i go vacation.. but i guess that seems impossible now. if i try to ask her again that would blow me off..

[ZedKnightly]

last day ill see her this year.
ill ask what she wants for present when i get back..
but i plan on giving her smething special though.

also plan on trying to show a little hint of interest tomorrow. ill try to talk with her.

wow. im really trying this out.

[Bureda]

Originally Posted by ZedKnightly

last day ill see her this year.
ill ask what she wants for present when i get back..
but i plan on giving her smething special though.

also plan on trying to show a little hint of interest tomorrow. ill try to talk with her.

wow. im really trying this out.

Congratulations, you got balls!

You've made Duke Nukem Proud

[ThinasLWD]

Originally Posted by Bureda

Congratulations, you got balls!

You've made Duke Nukem Proud

EPIC Balls Of Steel ><.

Good luck Zed.

[Bureda]

Hehehh, you know it.

[theAlphaDuck]

you should shag her.....

you want justification...thus you are justified...

why think what if....?

besides her boyfriend wont mind....cos hes not going to find out..

I've been with plenty of girls from many different places who have boyfriends....

If you are not mates with this guy...infact if you dont know him...

then ALLS fair in love and war...

why deny yourself these good times...as a favour to some guy you dont know?

what has he ever done for you?

do what makes you happy...you live once

Happy hunting

[ZedKnightly]

to the poster above me.

you are a baaaad man.

although i am doing exactly what u might have said, i dont agree with u 100%.
lolz.
i dont know. guess im being hypocrite.

balls of steel? lolz. so im kind of like superman. well thats always nice.

i got to talk to her today, but nothing huge. just regular conversation, a few laughs here and there.. and although i did said il try to do smething big today before i leave the country for 2 weeks, i havent done so.. yet. ill try later and see from there.

[ThinasLWD]

Originally Posted by ZedKnightly

to the poster above me.

you are a baaaad man.

although i am doing exactly what u might have said, i dont agree with u 100%.
lolz.
i dont know. guess im being hypocrite.

balls of steel? lolz. so im kind of like superman. well thats always nice.

i got to talk to her today, but nothing huge. just regular conversation, a few laughs here and there.. and although i did said il try to do smething big today before i leave the country for 2 weeks, i havent done so.. yet. ill try later and see from there.

LOOOL no it's not like it's about your balls, but the guy on the picture ( Duke Nukem ) has a few phrases he says alot. One of them being 'I've Got Balls Of Steel'.

Anyway, please update your situation.. how's things with the girl ? Still no changes i guess ?

[yukiNnight]

Originally Posted by ZedKnightly

wow. i envy u. im taking your a foreigner and u have made japanese friends..?
how did u manage to break the barrier? haha...

back to the topic..
@Keaton
interesting advice mate..
made it sound easy as pie. my problem with her is, i dont know how to be close to her. she is taken. and she is a typical japanese. kind of have a barrier that seperates work from personal life. i can tell..

i want to make a move on her. be it for friends or more. although im still n the verge of deciding which to do, i still have this problem to overcome. how do i get close to her..

@thirdsight
thanks mate, ur so kind. but really, many would punch me just for the thought im having.
as for if she likes the guy shes seeing or not, that i dont know. ive heard they have had problems, which explains why she aint married yet.. i think.

also the bf seemed to be huge. can kill me with one blow (or so the story goes)

lol so what if he is huge?well what i think is that u should make the move if they have problems i meant sometimes their boyfriends aren't the one u know so make the move or just move on if people felt like punching u but i dont lol