My friend.

ThinasLWD · (#1 (**permalink**))

Well, there's this girl i really really like, and we've been friends for a few years now. Atm, she's single, she's not seeing anyone.. well..

The fact i'm really good friends with her is actually the main issue.. I feel like to her i'm 'only' a shoulder to cry on.. but i don't want that anymore, because ever since i met her, i loved her.

She's really the popular type of girl.. good-looking, popular, always people around her etc..

I know i'm really in love with her because, everytime when some other guys around, 'nd talks to her or anything, i get a strange jealous feeling.. and since she's popular i sometimes freak out at school, or when going out..

Another problem is she likes popular guys.. i'm not that kindda type. i'm not like some fugly nerd who gets owned by classmates all the time, i'm more like a normal person.. it's just i don't think i stand out enough.. also, i watch anime, game a lot etc.. you know, things most girls would think is 'geeky' or 'nerd'.. i don't think she'd like that.. but thing is, i don't wanna change myself for noone.

Please give me some advice .. ?

Ningyou · (#2 (**permalink**))

I think you should tell her how you feel about her and ask her how she feels about you. If you get rejected at least you know where you stand and you don't have to worry about it anymore.

And you shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone. She either likes you or she doesn't. And if she doesn't, at least you still have a friend.

SHAD0W · (#3 (**permalink**))

Its one of those make or break situations. Leave it how it is and be forever thinking of what MIGHT be or tell her how you feel and see how it goes. You might be rocks deep by the end of the night!

I don't normally take to people so quickly, but, best of luck

iPanda · (#4 (**permalink**))

I think that you think to much about this girl, and need to find some new friends that you can relate too more. It sounds like you have a good relationship with this girl, but all this jealously makes me think you are a bit obessed.

But its like Shadow said, its a make or break.

SHAD0W · (#5 (**permalink**))

Its not obsession.. its natural if you like someone. I could understand obsession if this girl didnt even talk to him and he was collecting things like strands of her hair for some sort of wierd shrine to her or something. But this is what they call the real world. survival at of the fittest and hes jelous because he thinks he has competition..

Ningyou · (#6 (**permalink**))

Jealousy doesn't mean you're obsessed o.O i think jealousy is a part of having feelings for someone.

But anyway...good luck and I hope it works out

xYinniex · (#7 (**permalink**))

you're in the friend zone already.
its so hard to get out of that.
in terms of her feelings i mean.

iPanda · (#8 (**permalink**))

I didn't mean it as in obsessed as in collecting her hair, I think he's obsessed with his feelings for her that he's actually afraid of doing anything else because he doesn't feel like he fits her standards..

Ningyou · (#9 (**permalink**))

That actually does make sense.

I don't think there's anything to be afraid of with that though. Worst case scenario is that she tells him all she thinks of him as is a friend. That's it.

So go for it!

ThinasLWD · (#10 (**permalink**))

lol @ some replies

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it's not like i've never thought about confessing to her.. i did it over 'nd over again in my daydreams.. haha

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but i don't think i've got the confidence to tell her about it. i'm afraid i'll be stuck with this for a long long time.. it's just soooo hard to confess..