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01-06-2009, 11:17 AM

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Good job thats not my intention when I go over then!

I'm 5'5"
Muscular build but with massive beer belly (took lots of hard work and dedication to obtain! im proud of it)
I wiegh just under 185lbs
Stubbley beard/goatee when I'm not working..

And you've all seen my pics

might aswell have bakagaijin tatted on my forehaed.

Hahahahahahahahah, sorry, that just made me crack up so bad.



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01-06-2009, 11:23 AM

I think it's a mistake to think that Japanese women are turned off by muscle just because generally it's not as high a priority for them with regards to appearance compared with Western women. (Is that even an accurate generalisation to begin with? Nyororin or someone else with more knowledge than me please help me out.)

The androgynous J-rock thing might be popular for some but I don't think it suits some.
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01-06-2009, 11:26 AM

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I think it's a mistake to think that Japanese women are turned off by muscle just because generally it's not as high a priority for them with regards to appearance compared with Western women. (Is that even an accurate generalisation to begin with? Nyororin or someone else with more knowledge than me please help me out.)

The androgynous J-rock thing might be popular for some but I don't think it suits some.
That's what I was saying. It's not necessarily a turn-off, but it's definitely not top priority, go go go, find big tuff guy, rape him. Joking.



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01-06-2009, 11:28 AM

My top 3 guesses:

1.) Being really buff kinda went out in the 90's, leaner muscular with less mass, and more definition is what I think more women look for now days.

2.) I'd have to agree with my buddy Ronin4Hire, your approach is important. Some American guys are really flashy, or cocky and that's not really a good look in Japan.

3.) Maybe you haven't found "The One" There are plenty of fish out there you just have to be patient, and let them come to you.


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01-06-2009, 11:31 AM

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rape him. Joking.
dude, theres nothing funny about rape.

Unless your being raped by a clown.


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01-06-2009, 11:35 AM

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My top 3 guesses:

1.) Being really buff kinda went out in the 90's, leaner muscular with less mass, and more definition is what I think more women look for now days.

2.) I'd have to agree with my buddy Ronin4Hire, your approach is important. Some American guys are really flashy, or cocky and that's not really a good look in Japan.

3.) Maybe you haven't found "The One" There are plenty of fish out there you just have to be patient, and let them come to you.
1.) Agreed.

2.) Agreed x2.

3.) Agreed x3.

All of those points are important, especially rule number 3, which states that you just haven't found that special person yet. Also, if you apply to number 2, get your act together. In our culture, Asian girls expect you to approach them, but not with you flexing and flashing.

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Unless your being raped by a clown.
Lmao, I think that would just scar me for life.



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01-06-2009, 11:38 AM

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If your an arnie schwarz wannabe then your probably at the wrong market. Try picking up at the gym?
Gahahahah, great advice.



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01-06-2009, 11:42 AM

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Yeah, i imagine thats pretty much how it'd sound.


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01-06-2009, 11:45 AM

Yeah I've dated plenty of girls Japanese, among others, and your "swagger" really counts in those situations. I dated this one girl who thought that all "buff" guys are prone to violance, so they sterotype Americans too.


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01-06-2009, 11:51 AM

Can't stop the stereotypes wherever you go, but Japanese people hold them particularly literal.



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