Words' meanings?

Jo_Kittie · (#1 (**permalink**))

If a guy says "I want you" what does it really mean? That he wants her to be with him, he wants to have sex with her, or that he wants her to be his? Maybe all of those? :x

I'm just in a bit of a do-not-know-what-the-hell-to-think-situation. So help me out here, will ya? .__.

Keaton421 · (#2 (**permalink**))

Depends on the situation when he said it

1) I wanna f*ck you
2) I want you to be my girl

I'm betting your guy meant the first one.

Jo_Kittie · (#3 (**permalink**))

Thanks.

He says it all the time. Mostly all random. XD

Miyavifan · (#4 (**permalink**))

I had the same problem with the word mine.

it would be said to me during intimate times, and not intimate times. I still don't know what it could have meant, what he could have meant.

Keaton421 · (#5 (**permalink**))

"Mine"? What about it?

Miyavifan · (#6 (**permalink**))

oh, sorry. I meant in the sense of calling me his... one instance is he would put his arms around my legs, when we were sitting together, and say "mine".

Keaton421 · (#7 (**permalink**))

Hmm... some guys get a bit, what's the word... possessive. It can be a good or a bad thing. My girl and I say we belong to each other, but it's not like I own her or something. I think saying "You're mine" is a bit sweet if they mean it that way

Salvanas · (#8 (**permalink**))

Sounds like some fucked up shit.

When a man says "I want you" He means he wants you. There is no set meaning to it.

NishiHime · (#9 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Jo_Kittie

If a guy says "I want you" what does it really mean? That he wants her to be with him, he wants to have sex with her, or that he wants her to be his? Maybe all of those? :x

I'm just in a bit of a do-not-know-what-the-hell-to-think-situation. So help me out here, will ya? .__.

Depends on the context - does he tell you he wants you as he's grabbing you or in a tender verbal way while you're having a meaningful talk? The former is obvious, the latter less so. No way to know for sure which is why it's not a good idea to give in to him until you're 100% sure of his motivations. Guys can easily let their desires get the better of them and even convince themselves they want you but in the end find out (unfortunately) it was only physical. If you pride yourself & your body, and want to avoid getting hurt - make the boy work for it and prove that his desires last much beyond the physical - that takes time - but your heart and self-respect are worth it!

- Nishi

Miyavifan · (#10 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Keaton421

Hmm... some guys get a bit, what's the word... possessive. It can be a good or a bad thing. My girl and I say we belong to each other, but it's not like I own her or something. I think saying "You're mine" is a bit sweet if they mean it that way

Oh, ok. well, I only know at the time it felt sweet. But now things are not at all how I want them to be, so now I just don't know.