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Miyavifan 01-22-2009 02:54 AM

underage dating
 
I have an important question.

Is it legal for someone to date someone underage, even if they're not being intimate?

Koir 01-22-2009 03:03 AM

Gut instinct says no, primarily because it's not that...good...to start with, and adding in the prospect of extracurricular hanky-panky just makes things worse.

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 03:08 AM

That's what I think.
He told me he will not be sleeping with her, cause he has no wish to spend 20 years in jail. But even just having her at the house is bad, right?

and now I am thinking that she might be drinking over there.

He said she'll be over tomorrow, and there will be some other people there, his roommates and their girlfriends among them. And they will be watching movies, and drinking.

He didn't say she'd be drinking, but it can be implied, right?

MMM 01-22-2009 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Miyavifan (Post 667644)
I have an important question.

Is it legal for someone to date someone underage, even if they're not being intimate?

It is illegal to be "intimate" but it is not illegal to "date" someone. It is, however, illegal to supply alcohol to a minor.

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 03:15 AM

And it's ok for someone underage to be at his house?

I'm not sure if she actually will be drinking alcohol, but he didn't say she wouldn't be.

I just think this isn't the smartest thing he's ever done. And why would he want to be with someone underage anyway?

MMM 01-22-2009 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Miyavifan (Post 667652)
And it's ok for someone underage to be at his house?

I'm not sure if she actually will be drinking alcohol, but he didn't say she wouldn't be.

I just think this isn't the smartest thing he's ever done. And why would he want to be with someone underage anyway?

It is OK for someone underage to be in another person's house.

I don't know who "he" is, so I can't say if it is the smartest thing he has ever done, but it sounds like a recipe for statutory rape.

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 03:39 AM

well, I meant with them going out, but ok.

He is the person I was involved with.

Well, even though he said he told her he won't sleep with her, I suppose it's always possible, as there's nothing stopping him. especially if he's drunk.

superheel 01-22-2009 03:45 AM

It depends. If a girl is in an adults house and her parent knew about it, they can just call the cops and say that their daughter was "abducted", specially oic there's a romantic relationship involved. But it's really not illegal.

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 03:51 AM

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Originally Posted by superheel (Post 667666)
It depends. If a girl is in an adults house and her parent knew about it, they can just call the cops and say that their daughter was "abducted", specially oic there's a romantic relationship involved. But it's really not illegal.

I'd say it is a romantic relationship, even without them being intimate. Considering they're going out with each other.

Ok.

Koir 01-22-2009 03:54 AM

A "rooster" block may be in order then.

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 03:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Koir (Post 667670)
A "rooster" block may be in order then.

What's that?

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Tenchu (Post 667694)
It is not illegal to spend time with anyone, regardless of age. Why'd you think that?

Just kissing = exploitation of a minor. Sex = statutory rape. Beers = doing stupid shit. Spending time together = getting a few bad looks.

I was merely asking. There's nothing wrong with that.

(I just realized the title should be altered a little, but I am unable to change it)

Bureda 01-22-2009 07:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miyavifan (Post 667644)
I have an important question.

Is it legal for someone to date someone underage, even if they're not being intimate?

How under age is exactly 'under age'. What is subject B's age.

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 08:19 AM

I actually don't know. It didn't occur to me to ask.

By subject B, I'm assuming you're meaning the guy. He's 19.

Bureda 01-22-2009 08:20 AM

You should ask, otherwise things may turn to be unsightly. =]

Miyavifan 01-22-2009 08:38 AM

I suppose so.. (rest of reply in PM)

MMM 01-23-2009 03:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miyavifan (Post 667698)
(I just realized the title should be altered a little, but I am unable to change it)

What would you change it to?

Miyavifan 01-23-2009 04:08 AM

Actually I'm not sure.

the current title just makes it seem like it's two underage people.

My brain's not at full functionality right now. It's after 10 pm.

NanteNa 01-24-2009 02:02 AM

Yes it is.


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