I am not sure what to do, and could use help

Miyavifan · (#1 (**permalink**))

I had send an email, to this person I was friends with, who ended the friendship because of something he thinks I did(but I didn't), to tell him I am tired of hurting. in the subject line I put I couldn't care if he got more upset.

he replied. Chances are he's more upset. but should I read the email and find out, and reply, also to tell him the reason I believe he has for thinking what he does, is wrong? And that there was no reason to have ended the friendship?

MissMisa · (#2 (**permalink**))

Personally, he's probably not worth it if he's blaming you for stuff you didn't do.

Miyavifan · (#3 (**permalink**))

yeah, I think that sometimes, that he isn't.
but what's really bothering me is that he thinks that way about me, and he didn't even bother to really ask me what the notes for two other people were about.

he just assumes. I just want to be able to at least speak my mind about it, and tell him he's wrong, if nothing else...

but I don't want to make things worse, if that's even possible.

Quailboy · (#4 (**permalink**))

Sometimes people like this aren't worth the trouble of dealing with..sometimes they are though..you have got to go with your gut with this one..I hope everything works/worked out alright for you.

Miyavifan · (#5 (**permalink**))

Thank you for replying.

well, it's pretty much been resolved. I'm sorry I didn't say that here.

It's not how I would have hoped though... *shrugs*

but you're right. He's really not worth it, if he's gonna act this way.
He still has lots of growing up to do, to be honest.

Miyavifan · (#6 (**permalink**))

sorry about that. I'll work on cleaning it out tomorrow. promise.

back to topic now

Yes, it is good. as you say.

Yeah, I believe the main problem is he's just immature. That's the first reason he thought of going into the air force. his dad had told him about it. basically saying he had to.

Salvanas · (#7 (**permalink**))

It's always best to get explanations and the such out of the way before deciding to be friends/not be friends with someone.

Regardless if he's worth it or not, I recommend talking to him again, and explaining.

Miyavifan · (#8 (**permalink**))

That's impossible, as he has said he doesn't want me contacting him at all.

also, he's the one who doesn't want to be friends, not me.

Salvanas · (#9 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Miyavifan

That's impossible, as he has said he doesn't want me contacting him at all.

also, he's the one who doesn't want to be friends, not me.

Fair enough. Then don't bother then. He ain't worth anybodies time then.

Miyavifan · (#10 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Salvanas

Fair enough. Then don't bother then. He ain't worth anybodies time then.

exactly....

It's just bad, that I still miss him.