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Help with gal problems - 08-08-2009, 05:55 AM

okay so this girl i like finally talks to me and i freak out cos im really shy
and i think i cam off really cold. anyway three days later in our next class together she dosent even talk to me, comes in late and leaves early and yeah.
why is she ignoring me and can i fix it
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08-08-2009, 09:28 AM

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okay so this girl i like finally talks to me and i freak out cos im really shy
and i think i cam off really cold. anyway three days later in our next class together she dosent even talk to me, comes in late and leaves early and yeah.
why is she ignoring me and can i fix it
please help
I think she might have felt offended, and that is why she gives you "the cold shoulder" try and talk to her before or after some of your classes, and just tell her "your sorry for seeming cold but i'm really shy" and when this works you at least have your friendship


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08-08-2009, 11:25 AM

yea you should talk to her it will make things better she might even understand

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08-08-2009, 03:12 PM

just send her an email or whateva necessary..
sometimes it's better off starting a relationship by mailing first to get to know each other..


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08-08-2009, 03:26 PM

Wait outside the class for her and explain what happened. Tell her you were shy and afraid. She will understand, dont worry man you got this 8D


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11-24-2009, 10:42 AM

Well ,
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just be yourself ,
dont let your shyness kill you!

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11-24-2009, 11:24 AM

she probably feels stupid.

when you talk to her, don't be too eager!!
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11-24-2009, 01:37 PM

Absolutely tell her - in person - not an email. One -she should appreciate the effort you make to catch up with her, two - she will appreciate it even more when she realizes that your shyness means the explanation in person was even harder.

At this point if she is actually avoiding you she probably feels embarrassed because she thinks she made the first move on a guy who had no interest in her. You need to clear that up ASAP, before the bad feelings over making a mistake have a chance to sour into dislike.


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