The Japanese Girl I like is shy around me, please help!.

[ozkai]

Take her out, order a few Sake for you and her, It will impress as a cultural thing, pop your arm around her, rub your fingers softly with a slight tickle on the back of her neck, pull her towards you and get those lips wet. She will then understand.

You can live the nipple teasing until you get home

[Manske]

any update?

[gopepe]

I just read your issue which just sounds like what my bf said b4 we go out.
usually Japanese females are nice and like to help a person who is trying to learn Japanese outside of Japan but it is not hard to see if a girl likes you or not.

my bf also mentions, i always gave him polite smile while i was teaching him english, could not tell how I really feel. he actually asked me for being a relationship a month b4 i go back to Japan (yes, he was also afraid) it seems like you guys dont have enough time either... so you should better go for it as soon as possible.

n come on if she does not like you that will prove that she is not THE ONE.

gambatte!

fyi, im japanese and my bf is american

[gopepe]

I just read your issue which just sounds like what my bf said b4 we go out.
usually Japanese females are nice and like to help a person who is trying to learn Japanese outside of Japan but it is not hard to see if a girl likes you or not.

my bf also mentions, i always gave him polite smile while i was teaching him english, could not tell how I really feel. he actually asked me for being a relationship a month b4 i go back to Japan (yes, he was also afraid) it seems like you guys dont have enough time either... so you should better go for it as soon as possible.

n come on if she does not like you that will prove that she is not THE ONE.

gambatte!

fyi, im japanese and my bf is american

[shu]

try inviting her to some places with you.i dunno if it will work but i wish the best for you and hope it does.

[izzyspint]

Look at it this way, if you presume she doesn't like you and don't ask. Then nothing will ever happen and you'll feel rejected any way because you think she doesn't like you even if she does. so that's a situation where you will definitely lose.

However if you ask the girl you like, she might say yes, even if you have doubts. So with this situation you actually have a chance of being with her.

Just ask her man, good luck

[MMM]

Please realize you are necroposting by answering a question asked by a person who hasn't been on this site in well over a year.