JapanForum.com  


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
(#141 (permalink))
Old
xYinniex's Avatar
xYinniex (Offline)
Quit yo' jibber jabber!
 
Posts: 2,090
Join Date: May 2007
Location: Awesome land
09-12-2011, 02:42 PM

Let's be honest here, most of you are saying personality because you don't want to seem like a douchebag.

But, the answer is that you'd probably GO for looks. (don't matter if you chat with them once or date them for a number of years) you would still prefer a girl/guy that looked relatively disease free and reasonably handsome.

I'm shallow. I'd go for looks.


"I'm sorry, but i must have given you the impression that I actually care about your opinions"
Reply With Quote
(#142 (permalink))
Old
OHayou's Avatar
OHayou (Offline)
JF Old Timer
 
Posts: 128
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Ohio
09-18-2011, 11:31 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by xYinniex View Post
Let's be honest here, most of you are saying personality because you don't want to seem like a douchebag.

But, the answer is that you'd probably GO for looks. (don't matter if you chat with them once or date them for a number of years) you would still prefer a girl/guy that looked relatively disease free and reasonably handsome.

I'm shallow. I'd go for looks.
Everyone goes for looks initially unless a friendship overtime turns into a relationship of some sort.

Caveat: When I say looks it can be that raw lust-inducing physicality of the person or their non-verbals (which 60% of communication is by the way - non-verbal) which attract you to them (confident demeanor, laid back-demeanor, extremely masculine/extremely feminine, etc.)

In the end though, connection is the most important which include both personality and looks and also other things not talked about such as: career or lack of one, morals or lack there of, drug addiction or lack there of, etc.

Lets face it, you can have a great personality and look great but if you do drugs and they don't, are a christian and they're a muslim, live with mom and dad and ride the bus and they have a career and roll in a mercedes, etc -- you're going to have some major obstacles to overcome in making that relationship work because...lack of connection.
Reply With Quote
(#143 (permalink))
Old
Nameless's Avatar
Nameless (Offline)
JF Old Timer
 
Posts: 120
Join Date: Feb 2011
09-19-2011, 06:02 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by xYinniex View Post
Let's be honest here, most of you are saying personality because you don't want to seem like a douchebag.

But, the answer is that you'd probably GO for looks. (don't matter if you chat with them once or date them for a number of years) you would still prefer a girl/guy that looked relatively disease free and reasonably handsome.

I'm shallow. I'd go for looks.
Y helo thar wingstodiscovery.

I already answered to this same premise.
Reply With Quote
(#144 (permalink))
Old
NanteNa's Avatar
NanteNa (Offline)
sixth gun.
 
Posts: 5,701
Join Date: Jan 2007
Send a message via Skype™ to NanteNa
11-21-2011, 06:13 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by xYinniex View Post
Let's be honest here, most of you are saying personality because you don't want to seem like a douchebag.

But, the answer is that you'd probably GO for looks. (don't matter if you chat with them once or date them for a number of years) you would still prefer a girl/guy that looked relatively disease free and reasonably handsome.

I'm shallow. I'd go for looks.
This. I ruv u Yins, and yew know it<3


[ <-- Jordan's heart! \(Ò_ó)/ ]
Follow me on TUMBLR
"Well if a chick has a problem with the way I conduct myself I'd draw the bitch
a map to the nearest exit and stamp "fuck off" on her forehead."
- Pot Roast
Reply With Quote
(#145 (permalink))
Old
ImadakeOtosan (Offline)
New to JF
 
Posts: 4
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: U.S.A
11-25-2011, 01:16 AM

All. Why settle for less?
Reply With Quote
(#146 (permalink))
Old
aldafariomar's Avatar
aldafariomar (Offline)
New to JF
 
Posts: 7
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: TN, United States
12-09-2011, 04:54 PM

Personality is a wise move. Looks is a careless move. Simple as that
Personality is a long term. Looks is a short term.
Reply With Quote
(#147 (permalink))
Old
RustyBlackleford (Offline)
Banned
 
Posts: 37
Join Date: Dec 2011
12-09-2011, 06:39 PM

Both. If it's just a pure sexual relationship, looks are 95% (personality only matters so they don't try to say it was rape even though it was consensual, they don't take money, don't think it was more than what it was, and know what they're getting into). In a steady relationship, looks are important since there should be some physical attraction, but personality is more important. I don't blame girls for not dating me since I'm short, black, and ugly, just the same way I would never date a big fat girl. Hypothetically speaking though, a woman wouldn't have to be a smoking-hot ten; I just prefer dating decent-looking girls (7's) if I had access to them.
Reply With Quote
(#148 (permalink))
Old
jasminoodle's Avatar
jasminoodle (Offline)
JF Regular
 
Posts: 52
Join Date: Apr 2008
12-21-2011, 08:18 PM

im not gonna lie, its teh looks that first attracts me to someone, but then when i get to know them if tehy are nasty it puts me off them right away!


dudes are like hippy vans-

i dunno why, they just are

ahh, see. i dont have a japan-related sig, even though i love japan and im on its forum. that makes me cooler than david blaine,jerry springer,kirsten dunst,fearne cotton and the POPE, mixed in a cauldron, shoved in a handbag and served up in a sushi bar. eat that noodle fans! XD

ahh, now it IS Japan related,
lol!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On




Copyright 2003-2006 Virtual Japan.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.0.0 RC6