I broke up with bf in Japan .. last night

[Sayakashi]

Originally Posted by Distortedshell

Sayakashi, things will eventually get better. Right now you will have to manage on your own. I know it's very difficult but try not to stress yourself too much about the break up. You can be strong, and you will get through this, but take it a day at the time. If you keep stressing too much about it now it will get much worse in the long run to get over. Take deep breaths, you can do this! You know you can.

Thank you
I will try
I listen to you
I am alone here in Nagoya no japanese friends
I have few thai friends here they are all busy and seem like don't wanna listen to my problem , maybe it make them bored
So It is really good to talk to you guys in here
Thank you so much
I also posted in another web forum too
but many of people making joke of this
some saids It's fake bla bla bla
So i feel really glad really good that you all are nice to me here

[godwine]

Originally Posted by Sayakashi

Thank you
I will try
I listen to you
I am alone here in Nagoya no japanese friends
I have few thai friends here they are all busy and seem like don't wanna listen to my problem , maybe it make them bored
So It is really good to talk to you guys in here
Thank you so much
I also posted in another web forum too
but many of people making joke of this
some saids It's fake bla bla bla
So i feel really glad really good that you all are nice to me here

I am sure you are going through tough times right now, especially in a country where you have limited friends and limited friends. Why not email friends and families back home?

The best way to get over thing is to find things to do that can distract you from the experience. Why not take some time off from school and go on a short trip on your own? Maybe drop by Atami/Hakone to visit an onsen or do something relaxing, Go to Osaka to eat good food or something?

[Distortedshell]

Originally Posted by Sayakashi

Thank you
I will try
I listen to you
I am alone here in Nagoya no japanese friends
I have few thai friends here they are all busy and seem like don't wanna listen to my problem , maybe it make them bored
So It is really good to talk to you guys in here
Thank you so much
I also posted in another web forum too
but many of people making joke of this
some saids It's fake bla bla bla
So i feel really glad really good that you all are nice to me here

I'm sorry that you find yourself alone right now. I know my friends too didn't want to listen to me when I was feeling bad about some of my break ups. Try not to let that bother you right now. I know my situation is not the same as yours since your living in a foreign country that your still getting used to. I hope you like Nagoya. I've never been to Nagoya but I actually have a friend living there in Nagoya. He's American, he teaches English to little kids and he's an old buddy of mine from my University days. He always talks about Nagoya and how he too has a hard time adjusting to living there. He's only been there for 8 months now and he says that maybe after a year he might come back but some days he wants to stay for another year so there must be something about Nagoya that he likes. Do you like Nagoya?

[Sayakashi]

I been trying almost everything
calling family,friends in Thailand ,Take trip alone
But that made me more lonely
I know It's dangerous but
I'm thinking about suicide sometimes come in my head
I know that the worst thing
but I am trying to be strong
I have to try really hard
I am alone
I don't have feeling to make any new friends at school at all
It kindda bad
But I have to survive
I like Nagoya
But now I see everything not beautiful at all
All the world is dark and cold
I want to cry to someone
If anyone in Japan and know my story and have sometimes
You can call talk to me REMOVED softbank
I really need to listen anyone voice and cry
I don't want to cry and tell people that I know here
I don't want them to know my problem

[Koir]

Suicide is NEVER the answer. Do NOT forget that.

[RealJames]

you're hot, you can find a better guy
seriously

[Sayakashi]

I miss him
I miss him so much
really miss him
No calling from him since wednesday night from that last SMS
Is it the real break up?
I couldn't believe this

I love him with all of my heart
I accepted everything of him
No matter how hard life he has , or his education
But I gave my life to him
He said I'm the princess for him
He would never let anyone hurt me
I miss him
Even he left me or doesn't love me
But I don't know why I love him really much
I told him that
If when I love someone
I love them truely and would never betray them
I trust his promise that he would spend the rest of my life with me
I came here even It was damn hard about visa
But finally I could win the problem and came here
He said he couldn't live without me
Now he left me dying alone
I know it sounds crazy but
I really feel like this in this moment
I ve been crying all day for 2 days now
When I woke up in the morning I woke up with my tear
When I fell at sleep at night I slept with tear

[spicytuna]

It's obvious that you're in a vulnerable state of mind.

A state which makes you very irrational.

Like mentioning the S word or posting your phone number on a public forum. (I'd strongly recommend that you edit your post and remove it right away!)

Look, we've all been in tough situations in our life and we've all been forced to find our way out of it. It's part of life!

At least you have your health. I just got off the phone with my friend in Tokyo whos cancer had recently relapsed. Her doctor has given her a few more months to live. Sad news for a girl who's only 36.

[japan1234567]

Originally Posted by Sayakashi

I been trying almost everything
calling family,friends in Thailand ,Take trip alone
But that made me more lonely
I know It's dangerous but
I'm thinking about suicide sometimes come in my head
I know that the worst thing
but I am trying to be strong
I have to try really hard
I am alone
I don't have feeling to make any new friends at school at all
It kindda bad
But I have to survive
I like Nagoya
But now I see everything not beautiful at all
All the world is dark and cold
I want to cry to someone
If anyone in Japan and know my story and have sometimes
You can call talk to me xxx -xxxx -xxxx softbank
I really need to listen anyone voice and cry
I don't want to cry and tell people that I know here
I don't want them to know my problem

I'm very sorry about what happend to you. But it's dangerous to put a phone number in a Forum! Take care and don't trust anyone! You are in a vulnerable and weak phase! Things could get even worse! Beware of bad people! Safety first!

[godwine]

Originally Posted by japan1234567

I'm very sorry about what happend to you. But it's dangerous to put a phone number in a Forum! Take care and don't trust anyone! You are in a vulnerable and weak phase! Things could get even worse! Beware of bad people! Safety first!

I agree. I bet you there are certain individual on this forum that already have her number on speed dial by now, and are thinking of offering her all kind of support and to fly over to meet her.... and sadly, I think I even know who some of those individuals are...