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05-25-2007, 08:13 PM

Well that Changes every thing now... It sounds to me that your best friend is attracted to who ever your boy friend dates,

or he could be gay. and wants to keep girls away form your boy friend. (but thats unlikely)

This happened to one of my 2 good friends (who where best friends as well) one had a girl friend and one was best friends with his girl friend. and well the girl wasn't very fateful and left my one friend for the other. Now my one friend that got dumped for his best friend is in a new relationship with someone and she has a good friend that would be the someway. (that someone is me ) but I have no interest in her. But my friend (the guy) was getting paranoid that I was going to take her from him, but its all good now. WOW

anyways If you truly love your boyfriend then say with him, and... well try and not fall in love with your best friend. (ask him if hes gay you never know.)




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05-25-2007, 08:25 PM

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Ok lets say you have a best friend and a boy friend. Your best friend (who is also a boy) is a supposed "threat" to your relationship. Both boys want you to be with them, but you are perfectly happy the way things are. Your best friend knows you wont be with him but he just wants you to be happy. Your boy friend on the other hand is afraid that you'll leave him for your best friend.

Now the real question

What would you do ? choose one to make the other happy? try to keep things the way they are? or just die... lol
I know how it is. I'm having the exact same problem. And there's a lot of rumors going around at school that I'm together with my best friend.. I don't know how I should advice you. Sorry..




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05-25-2007, 09:44 PM

n.n ty all

But, well i think i just might have to let this friend go. It's starting to make me feel unconffy to be around him. his advances arent welcome and ive told him that many times >.< but he still wont stop :/ and it's not fair for my bf to watch this all happen. im happy he isnt makeing me choose between them, but... i think this is just what i have to do.


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05-25-2007, 10:06 PM

Thank you too^_^
This thread has also made me think through stuff, and now I've decided that I will get back together with my boyfriend^^,

We're going to the cinema this sunday<3




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05-25-2007, 11:01 PM

first come first serve...


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05-25-2007, 11:01 PM

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Thank you too^_^
This thread has also made me think through stuff, and now I've decided that I will get back together with my boyfriend^^,

We're going to the cinema this sunday<3
Thats awsome Cg n.n


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05-30-2007, 05:41 AM

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(Hi Kira/Cn i missed y'all alot )

Maybe i should tell you the whole story?

My best friend is like a brother to me (ive had no interest in him ever) he's been trying to get me for awhile now, and i have good reasons for not dating him...

I met my bf and my Best friend on the same day at the same time in the same place. They used to be Best friends untill my best freind stole my bf's gf. Which ruined there relationship (how could it not?)

Then my bf comes to me n.n and now he's mine. My best friend dumps his gf and tells me he loves me. then tells my bf while im there that he's gonna try to steal me away from him.

My Bf told me it's ok to talk to him and it's ok to have him as my friend, but i can tell it hurts him...... In fact his friend calls me up and tells me all about how my bf's scared of losing me.

so now what would you do??
lol
sorry for saying this but you have a bestfriend like that? he is an A$$$hole... he steals every gf of his bestfriend? what the heck is that, a challenge that he could destroy every relationship his bestfriend has? or is he just bored?


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05-30-2007, 05:44 AM

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Well that Changes every thing now... It sounds to me that your best friend is attracted to who ever your boy friend dates,

or he could be gay. and wants to keep girls away form your boy friend. (but thats unlikely)
hey, this could just be it.. He is gay, he wants his bestfriend all to himself . Or are this 2 just testing their gf ??? this sounds fishy really... your bf is not angry with his used-to-be-bestfriend-and-now-your-bestfriend , is suspicious oh well goodluck qunnie...


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