how old is too old, mr cradle robber? lol - Page 3

kainpendragon · (#21 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Kanji_The_Wanderer

in my opinion adults (18 and over) can be any age difference if they want. but I dont think teenagers should go out with anyone older then 18.My friend she was 16 and she dated a guy that was 25. I dont think that should be done. but if your over 18 go for it!

lol well i have been dateing my girl for 2 years now. so she was 16 when we frist started dateing going on 17 and i was 24. but we did not kiss for like a year make sure her parents where kewl with it and got to know me. Always made sure she was home on time, we handel like adults should handel it. She was my little sister best friend and she came after me. I made sure to play it safe and talk to her parents and stuff and we just did simple dates until she was going 18 before kissing and doing anything else but as i said she was a lot more mature then any other girl her age she also started college a year early just like my sister. it all depens on the people involed. It took a while for her parents to get used to me because they though i was just going to be after some young tight peice of ass.

it took showing them that i was more worred about her getting thru college before getting serious. I am still more worried about that and her parents see it more often now because if she got a report or something to do i cancel our date. If we are still dateing when she done with college then I will commit my self to her if she wants that. She though she wanted to be commit before and is not very greatful she because she wants to go out and have a good.

kudo · (#22 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by kainpendragon

lol well i have been dateing my girl for 2 years now. so she was 16 when we frist started dateing going on 17 and i was 24. but we did not kiss for like a year make sure her parents where kewl with it and got to know me. Always made sure she was home on time, we handel like adults should handel it. She was my little sister best friend and she came after me. I made sure to play it safe and talk to her parents and stuff and we just did simple dates until she was going 18 before kissing and doing anything else but as i said she was a lot more mature then any other girl her age she also started college a year early just like my sister. it all depens on the people involed. It took a while for her parents to get used to me because they though i was just going to be after some young tight peice of ass.

it took showing them that i was more worred about her getting thru college before getting serious. I am still more worried about that and her parents see it more often now because if she got a report or something to do i cancel our date. If we are still dateing when she done with college then I will commit my self to her if she wants that. She though she wanted to be commit before and is not very greatful she because she wants to go out and have a good.

^^ you sound like me while convincing my ex's folks i wasn't jus some guy after ass. lol. she was only a year younger then me...but damn, it was hard.
nothign in comparisn to what you had to go through, i'm sure. and not kissing for a year, i admire that. speaking for myself, i'm a physicaly affectionate guy. i don't mean i'll go feeling a girl up 10 min into the date, lol. i show my affection in hugs and whatnot. and kissing would be part of the list after a while...^^; i couldn't not kiss the person i like. hats off to you.

Vesperd · (#23 (**permalink**))

hmm age doesnt really count to be honest, i know people that are 14 yearsold that act like 30, and 30 yearold people that act like 14.. so yeah its kinda like that, all down to how they are like on the inside.

kainpendragon · (#24 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by kudo

^^ you sound like me while convincing my ex's folks i wasn't jus some guy after ass. lol. she was only a year younger then me...but damn, it was hard.
nothign in comparisn to what you had to go through, i'm sure. and not kissing for a year, i admire that. speaking for myself, i'm a physicaly affectionate guy. i don't mean i'll go feeling a girl up 10 min into the date, lol. i show my affection in hugs and whatnot. and kissing would be part of the list after a while...^^; i couldn't not kiss the person i like. hats off to you.

More then you know. lol her is a Cop and she work in juveinal section of the jail so she really did not like me. her step dad is one also he worked Adult side of the jail. I was there It tech so i had to work with them to made it a bit strange but it made it easyer for them to warm up to me.

Kanji_The_Wanderer · (#25 (**permalink**))

yeah it really usually does boil down to how mature they are but most kids nowadays are punks, and immature sex crazied junkies.its pretty pathetic if you ask me. well thats how most kids are where I'm from. I was always an outsider and never really talked to anyone who didnt draw and watch anime. haha

kudo · (#26 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by kainpendragon

More then you know. lol her is a Cop and she work in juveinal section of the jail so she really did not like me. her step dad is one also he worked Adult side of the jail. I was there It tech so i had to work with them to made it a bit strange but it made it easyer for them to warm up to me.

o.x wow, that sounds....awkward xD actually...lol
man, that must have been fun. that explains the no kissing thing.

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Originally Posted by Kanji_The_Wanderer

yeah it really usually does boil down to how mature they are but most kids nowadays are punks, and immature sex crazied junkies.its pretty pathetic if you ask me. well thats how most kids are where I'm from. I was always an outsider and never really talked to anyone who didnt draw and watch anime. haha

lol, thats a pretty drastic/harsh comment on sex crazed junkies. ^^;;
they're not all like that. depends on where they are and whatnot. its only a selective group. meh

Kanji_The_Wanderer · (#27 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by kudo

lol, thats a pretty drastic/harsh comment on sex crazed junkies. ^^;;
they're not all like that. depends on where they are and whatnot. its only a selective group. meh

Sorry to be harsh, but thats the way kids are around where I live. i've never been anywhere else so thats all I see around here. its kinda sad.

kudo · (#28 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Kanji_The_Wanderer

Sorry to be harsh, but thats the way kids are around where I live. i've never been anywhere else so thats all I see around here. its kinda sad.

yeah....ah well. its reality, and its also true in cases. ^^;

hope you get a chance to go places and see how it is.

anywhoo, gota run, work calls.

(btw, check out the site update thread, the japanese lanugage forum is working ^^)

ooooh, BTW...this is my 600th post. xD

natalie05 · (#29 (**permalink**))

hmmmm since we are speaking about a certain age range....and 25 is the max we are speaking about...then i think 4-5 years should do it...6 yrs is pushing it...since the younger person is 19...i think that age complicates things more than people think...Both parties have different views on what they want...usually the older person wants to settle down...and the younger person is still maturing...I don't think it's the most important thing to consider when looking for a bf/gf, but my best friend is 19 and her bf is 30..and believe me it gets complicated....thats my 2 cents....though i support anyone as long as they love and respect each other.

berocca · (#30 (**permalink**))

half your age plus seven is a good rule. think about it. But that's the absolute limit of acceptablity.

View Poll Results: for ppl 15-25, how much max age difference is acceptable?
2yrs difference	13	9.70%
3yrs difference	26	19.40%
4yrs difference	19	14.18%
6yrs difference	9	6.72%
if they're mature/understanding...doesn't matter	67	50.00%
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