Let's see if I can get some advice.

[koaku]

that wht Im trying to explain2him lol

[Wyverian]

So from the sounds of it you guys think I might have a chance?

[koaku]

don't think like a looser dude! for me its not a question of chance or stuff like that,if you really want her, you'll have her...and your a JapanForum guy ! all the girl want a JF guy!!lol

[Wyverian]

I would just feel so much better if she wasn't already with someone.

[Nanobyte]

Originally Posted by koaku

don't think like a looser dude! for me its not a question of chance or stuff like that,if you really want her, you'll have her...and your a JapanForum guy ! all the girl want a JF guy!!lol

lolol, nice joke!

[Wyverian]

She would love this site if she had more computer time. But yea its just that boyfriend that makes me hesitate.

[zenit]

Originally Posted by Wyverian

So from the sounds of it you guys think I might have a chance?

Dont really know, if she sees u as a friend she will be with u more confortable with u, and she will allow u more intimacy than any other guy, it doesnt mean she likes u more than a friend. U may be just a close friend and she trusts u and she likes to feel suported!
Or she may really like u, i dont know, ur the one that knows ur relationship the best (infortunatly u like her so u may not hav the best judgment at this moment).
Either way if u like are her friend u should think of her too and mnot only on ur feelings, the fact of u liking her shouldnt be more important than ur friendship. When people like someone they tend to forget about the consequences of their vonfession, its not because ur friendship may end or u may get humiliated, if she doesnt like u back and if ur a really good friend for her she will feel really bad, it will be hard on her too.
So if ur going to tell her be ready to get hurt and to hurt her too.
Not trying to disincourage u, if i did im really sorry, just telling u to think it over, and if u really think the best thing is to do it then do it.
Big post sorry about that

[Wyverian]

Originally Posted by zenit

Dont really know, if she sees u as a friend she will be with u more confortable with u, and she will allow u more intimacy than any other guy, it doesnt mean she likes u more than a friend. U may be just a close friend and she trusts u and she likes to feel suported!
Or she may really like u, i dont know, ur the one that knows ur relationship the best (infortunatly u like her so u may not hav the best judgment at this moment).
Either way if u like are her friend u should think of her too and mnot only on ur feelings, the fact of u liking her shouldnt be more important than ur friendship. When people like someone they tend to forget about the consequences of their vonfession, its not because ur friendship may end or u may get humiliated, if she doesnt like u back and if ur a really good friend for her she will feel really bad, it will be hard on her too.
So if ur going to tell her be ready to get hurt and to hurt her too.
Not trying to disincourage u, if i did im really sorry, just telling u to think it over, and if u really think the best thing is to do it then do it.
Big post sorry about that

No its okay big posts are fine, and thats another reason why, I don't want to lose her as a friend. Ugh if only I hadn't been taken when we first met! This would be much easier!

[koaku]

you seems to be really stick with her nop?

[zenit]

Originally Posted by Wyverian

No its okay big posts are fine, and thats another reason why, I don't want to lose her as a friend. Ugh if only I hadn't been taken when we first met! This would be much easier!

If only i had 1 cent for the times i said if only...
Things seem quite simpler after some time has past dont they! I know what u mean.
But u cant think if only.. u need to think "what if..." to be prepared